Update: she was so on point again. Here’s our chat transcript:
Alexa Bloome
well we do see some ups and downs no doubt
Sep 14, 2024 21:33 PM
Alexa Bloome
but overall i would say yes
Sep 14, 2024 21:33 PM
Alexa Bloome
good good
Sep 14, 2024 21:33 PM
(Me)
Do you know where the ups and down refer to
Sep 14, 2024 21:33 PM
Alexa Bloome
well yes one coming upi before Oct 4th - little wrinkle a few days worth of
Sep 14, 2024 21:34 PM
Alexa Bloome
nothing to write home about though
Sep 14, 2024 21:34 PM
(Me)
Ahhh will it be from his side or will i be upset
Sep 14, 2024 21:34 PM
Alexa Bloome
I honestly think it's a little bit of the both I'm seeing people dancing tango, so I believe both of you will be a little moody and kind of take it out on one another
Well…it’s Oct 4, POI called me on the phone because he’s been asking to see eachother. Some of us message privately so some of you guys know that I’ve been worried about letting POI back in fully and I’m worried he could ghost again so I’ve been saying IDK, basically putting it off. Our convo on the phone was basically him saying it’s hard for him to make up for things since we’re long distance if I’m not allowing him to prove his actions in person. He said he was willing to just fly in and do dinner no expectations but he wasn’t going to force me and is willing to be patient. But on the phone we’re talking and he said he doesn’t give mind giving me space because he’s not clingy and I told him I like clingy in a joking manner. He then said he’s only clingy when he’s in a relationship or really likes someone. We kept conversing and I ignored that but then we got off the phone and I got really upset.
This was the text I sent:
Hey, thinking about our conversation today and I think you said some things that clarified that I had more respect and care for you than you did/do for me. I want to be around someone who genuinely likes me and can just match my energy of respect, care and honesty. I think it's best if we just stop talking altogether so you can focus on pursuing something that aligns with what you genuinely want
I do not take for granted our memories for sure though and I appreciate our time together always
Delivered
He responded:
I don't necessarily think that's true and I'm sorry if what I said didn't come off correctly but I respect you and want you to ultimately make decisions that you feel are best for you so if you feel like I hold no value in your life that's your decision. I do love and care about you and hope one day l'll have an opportunity to really show you that. Always here for you no matter what.
So she was definitely right about us having this downward but I’m not sure if it’s just a wrinkle. I’m really upset and I probably sent the message impulsively but idk. Her prediction for a relationship said 3 months but idk if i can wait that long nor do I want to be disappointed. That comment really made me mad and I know he has a habit of saying things and it coming out wrong but still…idk
Sorry for the venting session but I’m still in awe on how she predicted this. I couldn’t even predict this, things were fine so far.