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I'm letting go
Chocolate:
Hi. Some of the readers on Ask the Answer give a positive spin on relationship stuff yes. So reductions are quite hit and miss. I thought I’d found a good reader last year as a prediction came true but the next time I read with her it was all fairytale crap.
Don’t beat yourself up about having the readings. Just cutting down can be an achievement. True what you said about paying for readings in cash. Maybe if I just had the occasional face to face reading it might help me cut down more. I no longer have readings where it goes on my phone bill so I can track what I am spending more easily
Chocolate:
Predictions not reductions ha ha
TulipsAndSunflowers:
That doesn't sound very optimistic! The website you are using... hope you're doing well!
I am not overly upset about the readings, as it was just a few minutes and I felt like I needed the emotional support.... no contact from main POI, so everyone was totally wrong, but I know that a contact will come at some point, just not sure how much I want it at this point ... letting go takes quite a lot of dedication lol.
Instead of getting readings, I bought this awesome but expensive mug! Would've spent the same on a 10 min psychic reading, but I'm excited about this mug, been meaning to buy it for a while, so money well spent. :P
There are quite a few markets where I live, and almost all of them have a tarot reader there, but they're all awful and soooo full of shit! There's also a spiritual festival coming up this weekend, which I might go to, as there are meant to be psychics, card readers, but also energy workers, lots of dancing and sole traders selling their spiritual goodies, cards, crystals etc. Thinking of making my way there if I behave and have no readings until then! :) do you have any decent face to face readers where you live?
TulipsAndSunflowers:
A really helpful video for anyone who is trying (but struggling) to let them go ... :)
It's approx five mins long, and I found it really helpful, thought I'd share! ❤️❤️
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IZ3a2gvLcvQ
TulipsAndSunflowers:
This is the most difficult 'letting go' I have ever gone through. Taking it easy, baby steps, all was OK, until I saw him on social media - he doesn't have social media and I hardly ever use it myself, but I follow an organisation for which he volunteers - and there he was, giving a speech ... looking pretty good (unfortunately:). Anyway, why am I posting this? Well, seeing this made me upset ... I decided to call a reader, someone new ... Someone on this forum recommended Miscah. I called her and she was really good with past and present, like super duper accurate - only Gab and Lotus Grace got such specific details about him, including third party (Gab and Miscah also knew about his kids etc...). Now, the contact predictions given by Gab and Miscah pretty much align ... Gab said 3 weeks (2weeks ago) and Miscah said between 5-10 August (but felt strongly about 10 August). I am still somehow doubting that this will happen, but will update if it does. They both also gave the exact same reason as to why he has not been in touch in so long ... (I will write it on here later on, don't want to share too many details..). BUT - their outcome is the complete opposite... Gab said I'd never see him again and Miscah said I'd see him in September (two days ago, I got a confirmation that I will be travelling to his city in September! my plan was to wait. until end of august, message him then and ask him to meet me in person for closure!). Gab said nothing will ever come out of it - Miscah said that we are not over, because the connection is too strong... she said some things that were so spot on about our connection, but I just don't want to put my hopes up again and be heartbroken all over ... Will update on here by August 10. :) In the meantime - I am going to be playing, flirting and enjoying the single life to the best of my abilities! 8) ;)
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