Relationship Psychology Discussions > My Story

Sharing my story - who has been right and who was totally off?!

(1/5) > >>

TulipsAndSunflowers:
I have now deleted the first part of this post... as it contained too much personal info..

READINGS ON CURRENT POI(s) AND CAREER: (most are still pending, please scroll to the bottom to read about readings from years ago!)
- a lot of predictions still pending, will be updating

Phoenix Burning (keen) - First called her very early June. I have seen some members on here say that her predictions panned out after a while, not when she said they would ... For me, so far, she has been good with past and present and some minor predictions with other POIs, but I am honestly not too sure if MAIN predictions will pan out at this point, but let's see. I like her as a person, she has a lovely energy.
Main POI prediction:  Saw geographical distance between me and POI (true!) and that it had recently been quiet (true!) … Potential there, emotions there, reaching out very soon within a few days (reading on 2/JUNE Sunday and NO communication as of 16/AUGUST - so this was not accurate unfortunately)  -  "reunion coming soon and even if "you start walking away, he will resurface again" … I "will have a choice and ultimately it will all depend on me… how this will end or CONTINUE … I have had a couple of others tell me that he will be back as I will be walking away... I do not believe this will happen, however. I'm done.
She also said that we were likely to meet end of June/beginning of July  - NOPE. Haven't heard from him since end of May.
Career changes: Saw temporary contract offered within about two months abroad, beginnings will be rough tho but then very good cards and good finances… (she said this beginning of June and it's now mid August, so this seems unlikely at this point...)
Other POIs- Saw my casual POI (who had not contacted me in over a month!!) who will kinda just pop up " like hey whats up .". pretty much what he did just a few days later! said nothing major will come out of it, which is what happened - things ended between us later that month.
Business with a friend- Also trying to do business with someone and she told me that it'll be good for us but not to trust him with everything as he's a gossip - TRUE!!! - and that he will be trying to pursue me - he already IS! Said that aside from that, business wise, we will do well together! NOT CORRECT either - as he has now decided to pursue this business abroad whilst I am building it with another friend over here ... maybe in the future, we will do some business together, but right now it is a firm no. 
Argument with a friend: Had a huge fight with a good friend of mine beginning of June- and Nicole said that this friend doesn't want us to be over (even tho we kinda said we were) and that she will reach out in about two weeks - she reached out in two days - and that things will be very awkward at first - they weren't awkward for me, but I do not think I wish to try and save that friendship tbh. The friend has not apologised nor made any effort to patch things up - aside from three work related messages she has sent since.


Starfish Insights (Keen)- I will not be contacting her again, incorrect for me on predictions, too expensive to be correct on present only... I gave names and dates of birth (she does astrology) and let her do the typing - Contacted her beginning of June. She correctly picked up on me and my main POI not really communicating right now, and that it is bothering me. Saw that we are having a moment of 'pause' but she sees that changing soon, and that we will be 'moving forward' together. Said he was a very moody person - true. Said he's "very attracted to you and filled with desire!" he worries whether he's ready to take all the responsibility but the desire is there! Said it's important that I trust him, as he isn't always able to articulate words to reassure me. (I do trust him to be truthful, THAT is not an issue for me, his lack of communication is lol). She also said that he sees me as someone he's gonna keep going with and wants to. Said she saw contact end of the week or first of next (This was almost three months ago, still NO CONTACT). she also said that she doesn't normally do timings but this felt FAST, so it's safe to say she wasn't correct.

Asked about a job opportunity (currently trying to get a job abroad and sent my CV to a contact I have there two months ago..), she said things are moving slowly but she sees a progress around my birthday in July and that I 'might' get this opportunity around that time, as she sees good news coming in regards to this. In line with almost everyone else, but so far, as of mid August - nothing!

BUT - Unlike Phoenix Burning, she said that POI might not stick to promise about our next travels, that he is procrastinating and unsure of the next step - this is clearly true ....

 she gives a lot of personality descriptions which I couldn't care less about, especially not at $9 per minute, but she did send me 5 free minutes and I believe she is a genuinely lovely and bubbly person.  She doesn't do predictions, only 'trajectories'.

When asked about my casual POI, she said the connection is nice, but I have to again do most of the work which I don't really want to do. More of a friendly connection - we ended things a few weeks later. So she was right on this.


Marie Green (keen) - I posted on her thread as well- So far from what I can confirm to date, she has not been correct for me. Said me and POI would go abroad together, enjoy it and be intimate there  - we didnt go on that trip at all.

Said casual POI would reach out by Monday (that was meant to be just a few days after the reading, but he instead reached out more than one month later!). Said this casual relationship would last as long as I want it to - no, things ended between us in June, he is a relationship person and another woman asked him to be in an exclusive relationship and he decided to go for it, breaking things off with me as a result...

She gave contact prediction from someone for June- didn't happen. I reached out to that person in early August - never heard back...

Some predictions are still pending though. Said me and current POI wouldn't last and that I'd slowly remove myself from the relationship and meet someone new Nov/Dec - as some of you know by now - he hasn't been in contact since end of May- and it  seems like he's the one who's removed himself from this relationship.  ::)

Said I'd get a new job offer and move abroad - and earn more than I am now (which I think is highly unlikely, as I am earning quite a bit of money now and doubt they would offer more - will update on here).

Empathic Emma (keen) - Lots of people on here have NOT had good experiences, but she has worked for me quite a few times before, so I have to give her some credit. She is using someone else's profile pic, which I hate, it's not even a 'stock' photo... which always makes me wonder who really is behind the screen .. she only does chat, never ever phone calls .. but she has very often often described my POIs well and would tell me things wouldn't work out and they never did. She very often described how POIs felt about me and their intentions very well. Like most of the readers, she didn't get my main POI that right this time around... ;(
What she has said this year:
Said beginning of March that I’d see POI again ‘within this month’ = it was 5.5 weeks later but not a bad guess:D
Said he was developing feelings and wanted to meet again and would do his best to meet and do everything he can for me when I come to his country (he did and it was very cute and I was being looked after like a QUEEN).
However, she then got EVERYTHING WRONG after that when it comes to this POI.
She was wrong on contact predictions EVERY TIME throughout April, May and June.
Said delayed uni coursework would be accepted and I would pass - ended up happening.
Said casual POI would fade out as has other interests – true as there are other women, but we're casual so I dont care -  I thought this was wrong, but he has recently broke things off to pursue a relationship with one of the women.
Correctly predicted that on my holiday in April, I would meet a lot of men and flirt, but wouldn't be involved with anyone, as all I will care about is main POI - ended up being correct.
Saw me and main POI meeting in June - NEVER HAPPENED, he has NOT been in touch.
Said I would get a job offer abroad , would hear from them in July - in line with others... said money would not be much but I'd enjoy the job -NEVER HEARD FROM THIS POTENTIAL EMPLOYER.
Said me and POI would travel end of May as planned- we didnt so she was wrong - quite a major wrong prediction tbh...
Saw marriage 1-2 years away.
Said a cute guy I met at the airport last month will NOT reach out again. She got this right.

Angelic Heights (Psychic Access) I liked her, some big predictions are still pending. She did get feelings, energies and situations right for me, but I feel like she might have sold me a massive FAIRYTALE with my POI.  Didn't pick up on third party...
At first she said  "You’re really into him and he’s just a little behind that at the moment. He has feelings though... It’s kind of like; well this is very exciting and there could be more to it, but I'd like more time."
Saw something happening with him in June – like a trip. "You are going to work this where you will be seeing each other as often as possible. This is someone you could be with – life partner  – I would not walk past this man and ignore him … he is worth it… wedding isn't off the table with him, I see it happening … " she then also gave lots of sweet details ... got me all excited and that reading killed all the rational brain cells I had left :D! It's so great to know wedding isn't off the table with a guy who has NOT contacted me in nearly three whole months.
She also said he would reach out on my Bday (I feel like a proper clown cause I was SO confident that he would! :) and that he would take me on the trip the had promised me - lol - joke is on me ... anyway she was wrong on this too... was correct at first but then it just all went downhill from there... fairytale after fairytale ...

Former Casual POI: Saw casual's POI energy not far away - within a week of contacting - Update: it took two weeks but good enough.
But said he would be a turn off and we wouldn't last  - Update: we had some nice convos and intimate moments, but no real spark... more of a friendly connection ... things ended later that month.
Career change: She also said I WILL get the job abroad and should hear from them in July as well - in line with everyone else, not sure what that was all about - I  have NOT heard from them.
Credit from the past: In the past, she saw a blonde woman around my toxic ex and even told me : but don't worry, even if they end up living together, they wont stay together ... LOL .. he was seeing me and her at the same time ... and they are now living together :D I have to give her credit for this one, but she lost me as a client after giving me this fairytale about my POI...



White Lotus Grace (independent empath, also on keen but don't think she goes there much) - She is an empath and a healer. She doesn't predict the future much (only when something comes through), but I have come to her a few times, because her readings are therapeutic for me, she is a very gentle and kind person and good with current energies. She is the only one (aside from Gab) who picked up on POI's third party ... she gently asked : ' We haven't discussed this about him before but .. is there someone else? I'm sensing another energy ... ' well, she wasn't wrong. She did also say he was falling in love with me, described him very well, said he was thinking about me a lot ...when I asked if he wanted to end things with me, because he had been silent and I was upset, she said he definitely wasn't thinking about us ending and that he would just say that to me and not ghost me ...  and he then said the same things to me verbatim when we spoke later on ... She was also VERY correct on other POIs' feelings in the past ... she's very clear about the fact that she does not predict, she only works with energies, she predicts when some info comes through that she is able to interpret.
I also have to say that she said, at the beginning of May that she saw me meeting my POI in 4-6 months. I thought she was crazy and not seeing things straight, cause we had this whole big trip planned and so on... which, as you now know, never happened. She also said that me and him would not be able to stay away from each other, as the connection is too strong - honestly, I felt that too and I am sure so did he, but even he told me at one point that it's easier for men to 'shut down their emotions when they become too strong' so yeah ... anyway - I will see what happens here, but at this point I don;t think the ;'not being able to stay away from each other' was correct ...

The Irish Family Psychics (Etsy) - "Between yourself and POI I see you desire it more at this time, so some unrequitedness will creep in here. Your get more needing of this connection and he will get colder, throwing the balance off. I sense committment worries around him being the main thing to evolve past, and he won't be doing that quickly enough. He wants the real deal for his family, but he is just not ready. This meaning it will evolve by him putting blocks in place and lack of effort and discipline to the connection. So sorry for such bad news there in your reading my darling. You have much to look forward to with other connections in time" So far, this looks like they might have just been correct. :) They have mixed reviews on here, but I am thinking of contacting them again today to ask about new POIs and see what happens there. Also if contact ever comes from this main POI, as they never specifically said anything about this.

"Sending your CV to XXX (which I sent two months ago) will not result in a job offer from just that action, more would need to be done is what I sense here. That the CV has just been looked over due to being busy, so more would need to do more and also waiting for the right timing. But ultimately a job will not come in the near future around this my dear, I'm afraid to say so keep going and looking for other opportunity also."

So - different to what others have said, she/he is the ONLY person that does NOT see any jobs coming out of me sending the CV there...  let's see! :)


Psychic Medium Gab (keen) I like her, but YET to see if predictions pan out, so if you want to wait for that before you decide to call her, be my guest - I promise to come back and update. However, she was super spot on with main POI. She was the ONLY one to have picked up not only the third party, but also knew how many kids he had. She said he would reach out in three weeks (this was OVER 4 WEEKS AGO tho! ).
She said he'd try to be back in my life but he would then pull back again and basically told me that it's best for me to let him go... without judgement, without pressure. Said I can have intimacy with him, friendship, whatever you want to call it, but it will NEVER be a committed relationship. I deserve better.
She said she does not see us meeting up again though. which kinda contradicts what she said in the first part, but I have a feeling she might have said it because I confirmed the third party, so she inserted her opinion into this a little ... I am also not sure if he will actually be in touch at this point .

New POIs - I asked about a new POI(2) and she said I would see him end of last week (didnt happen and I haven't heard from him in over a week:(( ). She said things would pick up around August 1st and we would be seeing each other for a long ish period of time as FWB.
I am actually travelling with a DIFFERENT POI on 2 August (POI3)(yes, I've been VERY busy trying to move on lol) but I hope this other guy contacts me, because I really, really like him. I called her again on 22/7 and she said POI2 has been busy with some man (his brother has come to visit, so maybe that's what it is...) and that he would reach out in 7-10 days and is still up for a catch up with me. Here's to hoping - NOPE, HE NEVER REACHED OUT after I couldn't go out with him as was too busy that weekend .. I honestly think he has found someone else to play with.

Argument with friend - she told me that things are over between me and the friend with whom I had the argument (described above) nearly two months ago. I think she is right!

Family situation: Said my mom won't be getting a divorce anytime soon as is too afraid of doing so - I think she is right!
Also correctly predicted my dad's relationship issues, which I won't be getting into here.

Future relationships Said my main person is coming into my life later next year and this will be IT - someone I will settle down with. He is likely from abroad but we will figure out the logistics later...  I am not really focused on this,  as just trying to enjoy life for now, but she said some lovely things about this future dude, so let's see :))


Said me and my friend would do very well together when we start our business soon (it's more of an expansion of what we are doing currently). Let's see - won't know until end of the year - ish.

READINGS FROM THE PAST

Marla Dawn (keen) - I like her as a person and she did get a few things right for me, especially when I first started reading with her (I would even say that she was like 80% right at that time!) but as of today, she's only  been 50% right / 50% off Im afraid. (And very wrong on my 2024 POI) !
I feel like she can really read things sometimes, but then when she can't, she'll just guess - rather than admit that she cannot read the situation. Bummer. She was correct when she said I would have problems at uni and that I'd eventually manage to resolve them. It really did happen and took a year to resolve, but I won my case... she even said I wasn't going to get a flat I wanted - which was true.  She also predicted I'd meet an Aries man with whom I'd be with temporarily - which did happen! But also said I'd meet 'the one' in 2022 - no! Met someone who ended up being an OK dude, but also kind of a liar by nature lol. Things didnt work out between us. She also correctly saw another POI not being monogamous and that he would always have lots of women around him (I later found out he paid for sex, especially when he travelled abroad for work etc...but he would never admit to that and I became worried about STI's and ended it...).
She said I'd buy a house in 2022. I believed that at the time, but it never happened and I dont even know if I want to buy anymore - given the state the world is in! :D
She was wrong on another POI - said he'd contact me but he ended up ghosting - I didnt like him anyway so didnt care. Was also incorrect on a work situation.
Again, when she truly reads things, she gets them right for me. I just wish she would say it when she cannot connect...

Empathic Emma (keen) -   In the past, she correctly predicted my moving situation + dates.
Correctly picked up on my ex POI being very manipulative and overly dominant, to the point where he was being abusive - yes! He used to try act as if he were Mr Christian Grey from Fifty Shades of Grey - he has the career, the money , but certainly knew nothing about how to be a Dom! Lol.
She read that guy really well and I have to give her credit for that, she even predicted what he'd say after an argument.
She was then incorrect on MOST job predictions.
So, to sum up - she reads my guys very well, but prediction wise 50/50 as well unfortunately, but I will probably still call her


Insight with Teresa - (keen) - she ended up being 50/50 for me, so I never called back. Nice lady though. Wrong on jobs. Correct on then POI - but wrong on future POI.

Prophet Angel (keen) - fake, scam, rude, wrong - HOW does he manage to get so many 5* reviews?! He was just so off...

Psychic Readings by Gail (keen)- Way too expensive for what she has to offer.  I was meant to be married by now - lol - didnt even ask her about that and she insisted she saw me with a ring on my finger by end of the year (that was like 2-3 years ago). She did however say that she saw a friend with dark hair helping me with a job  - which did happen - she also said me and then POI would only have 2-3 max years together - we broke it off after two years of knowing each other… So, not totally off here, but also not worth the $ I'm afraid.

TripleMoonGoddess (keen) - was very wrong on many things, including career (correct on some negatives regarding former POI, but she's known to be negative..?) - she's known on here to be quite rude and wrong anyway, so no need to add too much. I left some comments with details on her thread.

Lily Cade (keen) - 50/50 for me - Said I'd meed my soulmate in 2022 - nope. Said I'd get jobs I didn't get. Was also wrong on questions about university. Wrong about my ex - said I'd bump into him somewhere in 2022. It's 2024 - haven't seen him in years! however she also said that this ex was in a relationship with a woman who was very jealous of me and wouldn't let him speak with me - which is true - or at least was true at the time of the reading...
Said I will get offers after my two job interviews - which never happened.
Said my then POI is a nice person and we would have a great time together, but nothing serious  - this ended up being true.

Celestial Inspirations (keen) -  pleasant lady, had a few hits, but I am now thinking that these may have been random? ... Said my then POI was my soulmate and that we'd get married - he ended up turning into a complete a$$ after he wanted to do business together and left me very upset after we had signed some documents and I paid a big ish sum of money - only for him to just walk away from the deal, knowing I would never be refunded the money. He also never offered to pay for any of that and became very cruel instead. I told him to F off. We haven't spoken since. Also said I was going to get jobs I didn't get. Got the industry completely wrong.
However, she did say I would walk away from another POI - which I did do. Also saw a blonde man coming into my life - I did meet a blonde man with whom I had a nice time.

Amy (Psychic Access) very wrong about my old POI from 2015-18 - said we'd have such crazy, passionate  intimacy, he'd leave me 'unable to walk for days' - he literally had erectile dysfunction . She was wrong on everything else and blocked me after I had told her that things weren't going as she had predicted, lol. Scam!


Alexis (Psychic Access) WRONG! Very wrong.

Mystic Shelley (Psychic Access) - she knew NOTHING and it was just awkward tbh. She definitely didn't connect and was just producing utter nonsense. I have deleted a harsh sentence I wrote about her being inaccurate , and will leave it at this ...

Shani  (Psychic Access) - she is very nice, BUT ended up being WRONG on men, moving situation etc ... reads Tarot I believe. Only read with her twice, but was like 80% wrong unfortunately.

Isadora (Psychic Access) - very lovely lady, but was wrong on 80-90% of predictions. I even told her and she accepted it without being rude, which was a first lol. Other forum members on here have shared similar experience with her - lovely but not accurate.

Satya (Psychic Access) - she's had some good hits for me over the years, read some energies around me pretty well and was able to warn me, even tho I often didnt listen. She would tell me for years to leave the toxic ex... but she has recently been wrong on some pretty big stuff and she gets very defensive and quite arrogant when you tell her some of her predictions didn't pan out, so I kinda stopped calling. It's the attitude that counts tbh. She didnt pick up on former POI basically ripping me off and leaving me in shit and my wallet emptier (she instead told me she liked him and that things would go well).. However, she did also tell me current POI would be inconsistent with communication and that she saw me walking away, which I might be doing right now, BUT she told me it wouldn't be a particularly major connection and that I would not have feelings for him, which is untrue. He did express his love for me and treated me with so much respect and kindness- like no one ever did before! I would also argue that me crying for days over him means that I did in fact catch feelings lol - so she was wrong. I don't know if I will call her again, she's been like 50/50 with me lately, which is simply not good enough. Also said I would have to go to court over a landlord/tenant dispute, but I managed to resolve it without having to take legal action and got like 70% of my money back.. she was right for me on education related predictions and also one other former POI when she said I would only see him like four times that year -which was true .. due to his mental health struggles.

Kinda not too keen on Psychic Access anyway cause of the owner being a bit rude and just awkward and he also LISTENS to phonecalls, I can literally HEAR when he is listening and it makes me very uncomfortable.... there are some threads on him on here if you wanna read more...

TulipsAndSunflowers:
Thank you, Chitowngirl ! Appreciate you sharing - if you care to share more or any predictions she may have given? I mean - trajectories? ;D
It could be just a guess as you say, I am quite keen to hear from others who have read with her -  but I have to say that she's not wrong, my POI is very, very moody (also quite arrogant at times and doesn't like it when things aren't going his way - she kinda touched on that a little, too) and we are currently having this 'pause' , she also saw him being very overwhelmed  (did she tell you there same by any chance lol? ) - and he did admit to me last time we spoke that he was trying to change jobs, because he felt burnt out...
I'm now not going to read with anyone else and must admit I am quite looking forward to the end of July, where I will be able to see who was right/wrong on this lol.
Candice also described my casual POI as a bit 'wishy washy' and that our connection is decent, but not overly special - and said a few other things that apply. will se in regards to predictions.

Aaron0326:
I have read with starfish a few times recently. Very endearing character.  She has picked up a number of things that were both specific and yet kinda general(incidentally, details that I have spoken with other keen readers about and which others on the platform have picked up on which makes you wonder).  I cant say she has been wrong - she has generally seemed to grasp the overall picture quite well - but it also feels like maybe a little on the idealistic side? I am not really sure.  She has also mentioned the attraction and the slow aspect. Didnt get "pause" or "moody" though. 

sugarsky:
I’ve also read with Starfish and she’s quite nice. She says moody for my POI too, also inconsistent, but interestingly, she has picked up on him being wavering and last minute. He literally just messaged me a few days ago that he is in my town and he wanted to meet up, but I’m actually not able to see him because I’m traveling for work😂😂 that’s as last minute as it gets though. He’s currently living out of state so him coming to my town isn’t something that happens often

Wish she was a little cheaper

Chitowngirl:

--- Quote from: TulipsAndSunflowers on June 12, 2024, 03:43:21 PM ---Thank you, Chitowngirl ! Appreciate you sharing - if you care to share more or any predictions she may have given? I mean - trajectories? ;D
It could be just a guess as you say, I am quite keen to hear from others who have read with her -  but I have to say that she's not wrong, my POI is very, very moody (also quite arrogant at times and doesn't like it when things aren't going his way - she kinda touched on that a little, too) and we are currently having this 'pause' , she also saw him being very overwhelmed  (did she tell you there same by any chance lol? ) - and he did admit to me last time we spoke that he was trying to change jobs, because he felt burnt out...
she did say she saw us moving forward and even my favourite empath told me that we won't be able to stay away from each other, so I am quite keen to see what happens there, but for now, I am just moving on and not waiting for things to just 'happen'.
I'm now not going to read with anyone else and must admit I am quite looking forward to the end of July, where I will be able to see who was right/wrong on this lol.
Candice also described my casual POI as a bit 'wishy washy' and that our connection is decent, but not overly special - and said a few other things that are totally true about this casual POI guy...

--- End quote ---

See, that's the thing, she didn't really give me a predictions. She said that "if he gets his head out of his ass and decides to grow up more he could be a great match for me." That's annoying to hear even if it is true. I've pushed her more on that and asked if he's likely to get his head out of his ass and step up and she said it's completely up to him but that he's capable. Just has to be willing to change on his own. Maybe it's the way I ask questions or maybe it's just my situation but I always feel like no one ever really gives me predictions. I will test them every now and then and ask if I'm likely to see him or have a meaningful conversation with him when I do see him and they've all been 50/50 with those. It's just so vague for me and I'm not saying that with Starfish per se. I do like her and I do feel she's been pretty good about picking up on his personality but at one point she told me that him and his ex were, "done and dusted," I called her back some time after that and now she feels the ex is still around so she's waffled there. I need to just ask someone who's a mutual friend and find out for myself if he's back with his ex still or not. As I find out things that can be more concrete I will update on here but I try not to write too much when nothing's really happening.

Navigation

[0] Message Index

[#] Next page