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I'm Not CALLING! Psychic Hiatus

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sunandmoon:
My last call was just after Labor Day. I had started to see my current bf a couple of weeks earlier and was pretty scared about it. I was also pretty scared that my ex would try to come back (and at least one psychic told me that he'd get wind of my new r/s and do so - but they were wrong).

I can honestly say I have no clue how I survived financially, except that some of my bills were a bit cheaper and I was also on some state aid which helped a lot. Plus when I was really depressed I wasn't eating much - can we say pringles and soda to the tune of 14 lbs lost in one month (ok I wish that would happen again!)

There is a piece of me that is annoyed it took a new man to make me break away but truth be told, I was already weaning myself off. It seemed like at times I was almost forcing myself to still feel miserable about what happened between us, because if I wasn't I felt like I didn't care about him as much - if that makes any sense.

Yes I do miss him, even as a friend, because when he was not going crazy on me, he was wonderful. Problem is, crazy was just way too much a part of life. Now that I have someone who is emotionally stable, I can see what things should have been.

When I tried to close my CP account and had a hard time getting my funds back (I couldn't get them back at all), they told me they'd add something like $50 to my account in addition to the $21.50 that was there and I could have a reading to use up the funds. I was pissed they offered this - seriously I am closing my account because NOTHING has come true and you want me to have another reading? So I thought about it and ALMOST did a reading on one of my cats who was abused before I got her (I'm her 3rd owner). She is bottom of the totem pole and the others beat up on her. And then I thought gee - nothing of substance has come true about my life, why would I believe someone on CP about my cat? I'd be better off spending $50 on a real animal communicator if I was going to go that route.

I actually had readings in the past where I'd be listening to the psychic tell me what was going to happen and it was SOOOO off base that I'd just sit there and think it was humorous - till I realized what I was spending wasn't funny at all!!!

I do believe some people are gifted, but I really only wanted to know two things - why he left and was he coming back. I didn't get the answers to either and I'm sure I spent 5 figures trying to do so - which I am now painfully trying to pay off. Very very glad to see that card balance go down every month now!

Luckystar:
Last year i went at least a few months without calling any psychics.... I took a break from this forum from september of last year to march of this year. In 2010 i was calling psychics at least once or twice a week. I read with (and still read with) some locals, but most of them were from California Psychics who i highly suggest NOT getting a reading from if you have not yet done so. I read with so many of them and only one or two were accurate with how things actually happened. I think it is ridiculous that they can charge $10 a minute for a psychic and still claim readings are "for entertainment purposes only".....REALLY????? Who would pay that much money for just "entertainment." If it is entertainment we want we will go see a funny movie or a comedian.....they know this yet they still take advantage of vulnerable people. Anyways, that period of time where i did not get a reading gave me alot of time to do other things and actually save some money. It also gave me time to realize that so many of them were just wrong. Hear my advice for anyone who is thinking about getting an account or who is new to this forum, ***SAVE YOUR MONEY***

PsychicWhore:
Sun&Moon

 YEEZIERS its almost a year for you  :)  Congratulations.

I'm in the 5-fiquires club also, and thats a hard pill to swallow :'( :'(.

Thank you for sharing your story, Don't forget to update us on your Anniversary it'll be here shortly.

Do you have any urges to call? if so what do you do to stop from calling?

Also, since its been so long I know you've probably had situations that would usually warrant a psychic call? how do you handle these situations. How Do you think the absence of readers affected this situation?

Again that you for sharing, very motivational.. :)

sunandmoon:
PW, I was calling because I was so desperate to discover why this man who had been attached to my hip 24/7 suddenly left me, when in MY mind things were smoothing out and I was feeling more secure about life in general. Once I started dating this new guy, I didn't need to ask questions from strangers anymore because he will tell me anything I want to know. :)  I know exactly how he feels about me and even if he doesn't say it I can feel it in his voice and see it in his eyes. One thing I have earned through this whole mess is how to never take anyone for granted again! Granted I was in a bad place due to divorce etc but my ex needed a lot of hand holding and I never gave him all he needed - and honestly his needs constantly changed so I was really fighting a losing battle!

In the beginning of the new r/s I did at times have the urge to call but I thought ok, they were not really right about my ex so why would I believe them about this guy? How can I be dependent on someone else to tell me how to act with him? I've been married twice, had a few other r/s, I've learned a lot - if I can't apply that I've got deeper issues! Plus there was the money thing, I am really so embarrassed at what I've spent. :(  Then my new guy saw my tarot cards and said his ex was really into them and he was a little freaked out about them and he told me he doesn't believe in psychics at all. He knows how high my cc was but he doesn't know exactly why and at this point unless he asks me specifically I'm not telling him. I'm mortified over how I allowed this to control me, because I really am a strong person who has never dealt with any addiction before (except chocolate :) )

I guess it's kind of like when you reach a certain weight and think OMG this has to STOP!!! It's not healthy. And I got to that point. Being in the r/s helped a lot too as it kept me occupied.

And yes WT, validation. My greatest wish was for my ex to come back and be us again. Having someone tell me it would be so was worth everything to me.

4everhopeful:
All I can say say is "NOTHING HAS HAPPENED. Go on with your life and make your own decisions. The psychics are psycho. Follow your heart, it wont steer you wrong. Thats all I have to say. Proving that to myself tonite. No further comment, Im just through with psychics.  They're just wrong and thats it. Im done.

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