I agree Tired..that's why psychic readings are so hard to depend on..because the info they are receiving is filtered through their own human experiences. It must be hard to try to disentangle that from what you tell people.
Like if a person is calling about a POI that is in another relationship/married, and the reader has been cheated on and badly hurt in the past, that might affect the reading.
Yep! I have asked about men who were married and it was not at all like I had any intentions of going after them or having an affair with them. I was trying to understand what was going on (and not get hurt, myself) but some readers get very judgmental about that and make a lot of assumptions. One time it wasn't even my main question, it came up in the course of a reading that I was attracted to a married man and the reader started lecturing me on how I was creating bad karma for myself.
I can see where it may not always be easy for them to be objective or neutral, but when they start handing out information about their family members that can be crossing a line.
we all have personal biases its impossible not to have them lol and everything gets filtered through that. That's why different readers relate differently to people. I won't take a psychic's advice seriously who doesn't believe in love, monogamy, or never been in a relationship. the best psychics are the ones who lived through similar experiences and can guide you. This is why shrinks who have been through their fair share of issues make the best shrinks because they know what the patient is going through and can empathize with them. LD is an extremely sweet woman and empowering and I'm sure she didn't mean anything other than just trying to relate to the poster and saying she knows what it's like. She's not perfect and not always correct but an extremely kind soul and has biases like the rest of us.
Yeah, we all have biases, but it's another matter altogether when the reader is judgemental. And lecturing you on what you should and should not do. That is not okay at all.
LD sounds like that to me. It's also another thing to believe in god, but then to push him in my face constantly is way overboard. It is not always a good thing to converse with someone who have had their fair share of hangups. I know a women studying to become a shrink and she was in the worse effing relationship I've ever seen in my life. Her default is that it will make her have more empathy towards her clients, but my concern about the help she is doling out is on shaky ground because her ex was one major controlling sob and she never saw it for a long time. He ostracized her from her close friends where she told me it will take her years to resolve cutting them off and turning her back on them, and he talked shyte about her mother. Who does that and says it's okay? Not only that, she left him once and he convinced her to come back and to take more abuse.
Also readers discussing their lives on your dime, is just annoying. Yona has discussed her son with me once and I'm like what? I had to steer her back to the paying caller. I find that to be Just crazy.
