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Amaranth:
I'm putting this topic in this section, because really, it's a debate between an accurate 'prediction' and free will.  I just want to see what other people think about this subject matter.

As many of you know, all my readings revolve around 2 people- my ex fiance who after 10 years together and buying a brand new home together, just disappeared one day 2 years ago, disconnecting his cell phones and sent me an email a month later telling me he didn't want me in our home for now.  Recently, I have been living with my parents, while everything I own ( clothes, furniture, dogs, one of my cars ) sits in 'our house' over 500 miles away.

The other person I call about was what I THOUGHT was my best girlfriend, who late last year, decided she was tired of me being depressed, and she cut off our friendship, calling me some pretty horrible, terrible things and effectively pushing me over the edge to the point I was hospitalized for depression.  I just couldn't take any more rejection and abandonment.

Anyway, every reading I have had except for one storefront reading says my girlfriend will eventually apologize to me for her behavior, and we will renew our friendship.  I have tried to stay positive, but over the last 7 months since the blow-up, the hurt has easily turned into anger and resent.

Anyway, everyone's dates for contact have been wrong so far.  I haven't heard from her.  And I've been told not to reach out to her.  We have a mutual friend, who is my ex fiance's ex best friend.  I have known this mutual friend for 15 years.  I introduced him to my girlfriend in the first place, and she's barely known him 2 years.

Altho our mutual friend's loyalty lies with me when it gets right down to it, he doesn't want to be caught in the middle, and continues to talk to my girlfriend.  I'm not one to tell people who they can and can't be friends with, but I can't help but feel irked about it.  Part of me feels slightly betrayed that he didn't like, chew her out at least for how cruel and nasty she was to me. 

Well, in my readings with Cookie back in March, she accurately gave the last name of our mutual friend, and the city he lived in.  She told me that in May we would actually have a fight over the issue with my girlfriend, and that she saw me 'trying to hold my tongue to avoid the conflict' but that it would eventually come out.

Well, all this time I have been 'irked', but have decided it's not worth fighting my guy friend about.  He's consistently there for me otherwise.  However, just this week I happened to stop by a social site where we all used to post journals and crap, and saw him and my girlfriend going back and forth all buddy buddy, and my girlfriend saying to him: 'you're one of my best friends.  Thanks for being there for me and being so awesome!'  It annoyed me to no end, because I've been friends with this guy for 15 years, and she met him THROUGH ME and has only known him 2 years, yet she acts so damn familiar.  I'm just the chopped liver out of the picture.  Glad I could bring you two together, ingrates.

Anyway, I was so fired up that I called his cell phone, but he was working and unable to pick up.  It might have been a blessing, because I may have only ended up damaging our friendship with my anger and hurt.  He sent me a quick text about missing my call, but that he would call me on my birthday, which is a few days away.  And now I'm sitting here again, thinking, it's my birthday, I'm going to be spending it alone because all the people I love abandon me, and it just made my blood boil over the situation with my girlfriend again and how callous she was, and how it frustrates me that he can't seem to see her wrongs.  And then I got to thinking about what Cookie had told me, and I'm sitting here thinking when he calls on my birthday, I just may not pick up in order to avoid confrontation.  I just KNOW that somehow, someway, my anger and hurt will cause me to bring up the situation with my girlfriend, and how bitter I feel that he's 'okay with what she did and is totally buddy buddy with her, yet he wants to rip off my fiance's head for hurting me'.

I realize this is getting long and rambly, but how many of you think this is a prediction of Cookie's actually coming through, or mere coincidence?  Was it really just coincidence that I stumbled across a social site that made my blood boil over this whole situation when I've mostly been doing well with 'moving on'?  Am I trying to avoid talking to my guy friend now because that's the way it's gonna go, or BECAUSE I'm taking control of my destiny based on what Cookie said?

Interested in your guys' opinions.  I'll eventually edit all my information out of this post at a later date, as I don't want so much info about my situation  on her with the amount of readers that check in here.  I had one reading where a reader repeated back to me WORD FOR WORD the exact things I wrote in one of my posts :p

Thanks guys, and sorry for my curt post.  Just been under a good deal of stress about this and depressed about my birthday coming up ( my ex-fiance's just passed last week.  So it's kind of a bitter month ).

wishfulthinker:
@Amaranth - I'm sorry to hear about all of the pain your ex-fiance and friend have put you through.  My advice - (it's only worth 2 cents) is to pull your energy back away from all three of these people. 
I can only imagine your frustration at your friend for still being close with this other woman.  It is a sense of betrayal.  I would really examine why you feel this need to still connect with them.  You sound like such a kind person.  Put that energy into yourself in positive ways.  It is hard sometimes to pull ourselves back from situations that cause us pain. 
If necessary, tell your friend how you feel, but don't let his response be the end all, be all.  If he thinks you are such a great friend, why isn't he more upset that this other woman has deserted you in your time of need.  I would stay away from chat rooms, etc. where you see their interaction because it is only going to make you more upset.
You can still be friends with him, just don't let it be center stage of your life. I get angry at myself sometimes when I find myself giving my power away to other people. 
Wishful
 :)

sunandmoon:
I'm not going to comment on the prediction but I am going to say this - as a friend.  :)

I did much the same as you (though on purpose). I found things my ex had posted online, found him chatting on FB with people when he "didn't have time" to talk to me because he'd been "soooooo busy", I even got into his fb account and was appalled at what I found in there. And ya, it really hurts to see these posts go back and forth for hours when I'd sit there and think, wow you didn't even have time to send me ONE lousy email or text on my bday yet you can fb with this person all night long.

I have also found that what you see online is not necessarily the truth of what a person really is. I'm sure all of us have written a PC comment to someone while in our heads we are thinking something different. Truth be told, this girl may really be feeling as she's writing but you can't be sure your other friend is too especially if you've been so close for so long and he's still treating you decently. And you're right, you don't want to put him in the middle so it's good that you bite your tongue!

I would take what you find online with a grain of salt. And I agree with the others that you should pull your energy away from them.

And why can't you get your stuff from your house? Legally you should be able to! My apologies if you posted this in the past but I guess I missed it.

positivethoughts2:
Amaranth

First of all, Happy Birthday

I have an opinion about the bff but it has nothing to do with Cookie. And please know I say this with love.......

The BFF has shown her true colors while the chips were "down". As hurtful and sad as it is, she probably isn't the type of person that deserves YOU. My guess is that you haven't heard from her due to her own GUILT. She should feel guilty. Is she really a friend you want for the long haul? Life throws us curve balls and you want a BFF who will be there for you. Not go running. But I'm sure she will come back around and when she does you can decide what to do then.

Regarding the guy friend, he is a guy. Guys typically don't get involved with this stuff and you saying something to him will just make things worse - and he might tell your bff.

Meditate on letting her go and forgiving her. Take 10 minutes a day. Birthday's suck
PT

newlyPsychicAddicted:
Hey Amaranth First of all happy birthday....


i just wanted to let you know that i have read many of your old posts and it is my genuine opinion that i find you a beautiful person inside!!! dont let you bff spoil your health or your birthday... you deserve some one much better in your life..............as of prediction i do think that maybe cookie was correct... who knows...

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