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Onyx:
My destiny is to be an old, eccentric cat lady. Oh wait, I already am! :D

MAgirl:
I’m sorry to hear that you’re going through such a difficult time in your life. In my experience psychic readings just made me numb and wait to see when poi will take some action or this cycle change. I didn’t realize how much I blocked myself from living the life & actioning. For the amount of money I spent on four different platforms and reading more than 100 advisors since 2019 I could go to many vacations, travel, meet with new people and see the world 🌎. I’m so mad myself but at the same time this is what I chose to do. Free will…I was holding on a hope. Also, last three years were so difficult for all of us due to covid. I think my psychic addiction got worse during quarantine and remotely working from home. I’d suggest seeing a psychologists, therapist, life coach or joining divorce support group for the need of being heard, not keeping emotions internally and constructive thoughts. Best wishes ❤️

chrys1234:
Ye they are liars. Don't rely on them.  After 6 months they are still telling me my ex will reach out. Same free will shit and all

Mina:

--- Quote from: mii20 on March 05, 2023, 04:12:09 PM ---Hello, I am new to this group but just wanted to vent. I am going through a marital separation, and I got addicted to psychics trying to find answers. I’ve tried hundreds on Keen, I’ve tried a few on Bitwine, and a lot on Best Psychic Directory. At first, everyone seemed to think my spouse would return in February, and that we would reconcile. Then, they all saw me meeting someone new and “deleting” my feelings for my spouse, and getting the courage to divorce. Now, everyone is saying he will be the one to divorce me in summer. I am just so confused. Has anyone ever had this happen to them? Apart from my relationship, I have asked career questions, and it’s the same story. I would leave my job in February, then I would get a promotion, now I won’t be getting a promotion.

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It happens

It’s might or might not be comforting to know that you’re not the first person to get addicted to psychics because their love life fell apart… it’s actually common (doesn’t mean we should normalize it). But you won’t be the last either. (But the grief is that unbearable)

When things fall apart we then get stuck in this lack energy, or it’s not enough mentality and it quickly snowballs. Guarding our thoughts and healing, “should” be a natural “duh” but when we we don’t trust our support system: family, friends. Or it’s failed us, or just don’t know. But overall just in it. For some it’s psychics, other it’s mix of alcohol, gambling, controlling, eating disorders, drugs (there’s an endless amount of addictions really)

Regardless the best I can offer is humor. Know this:
At least you’re not getting in a relationship with Kanye and at least you’re not divorced from Kanye. And most importantly you don’t have to co-parent with Kanye.

What helps me sleep at night is this meme I made on full moon: At least I’m not coparenting Kanye

jackY:
What do you want? Do you want to remain married or divorce? Your future is not in a stranger's predictions. What are you doing to make what you want to happen? You are not alone. So many turn their power over to strangers because they don't want to really face what's going on. Choose what you want to happen and let everything fall where it will.


--- Quote from: mii20 on March 05, 2023, 04:12:09 PM ---Hello, I am new to this group but just wanted to vent. I am going through a marital separation, and I got addicted to psychics trying to find answers. I’ve tried hundreds on Keen, I’ve tried a few on Bitwine, and a lot on Best Psychic Directory. At first, everyone seemed to think my spouse would return in February, and that we would reconcile. Then, they all saw me meeting someone new and “deleting” my feelings for my spouse, and getting the courage to divorce. Now, everyone is saying he will be the one to divorce me in summer. I am just so confused. Has anyone ever had this happen to them? Apart from my relationship, I have asked career questions, and it’s the same story. I would leave my job in February, then I would get a promotion, now I won’t be getting a promotion.

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