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Tarot reading face to face
regrets:
I've booked a tarot reading today, face to face. They are on Facebook so I'm hoping it is someone genuine.
I'm going through a difficult situation. I thought I'd met the one, I knew when I met him. But we are not together due to his family manipulation using his grandchildren.
I don't believe he will stand up to them all, besides what kind of people do that. He loves me.
But I'm devastated and I'm going through this for a reason.
He's the only person I've ever been myself with, never laughed so much etc but we aren't together.
It is unfair on me, so I'm struggling. That makes me vulnerable though, but I need to believe that things will be better one day. It may not even be with this man.
I've been through much worse than this. This time I'm struggling so there must be a reason.
I'm really hoping this tarot reading will help me.
My fear is that they just give opinions. Its on offer this month so not too expensive. I hope they are genuine
regrets:
Well, I don't think they are psychic but it was useful.
It was over 2 hours, I was given tea and hugs. Basically self empowerment and what she said made sense.
A goodbye meeting, setting my boundaries in place. She thinks then he will stand up to them and we will be together.
I' don't want to believe the outcome, I think it's guesswork.
But the session was comforting and tried to empower me.
Definitely better than phone lines but I still don't believe she was psychic, more psychology. Useful and I don't regret going. It was nice to be told I'll be OK, to be given hugs and drinks.
Mina:
--- Quote from: regrets on January 16, 2023, 07:04:14 AM ---Well, I don't think they are psychic but it was useful.
It was over 2 hours, I was given tea and hugs. Basically self empowerment and what she said made sense.
A goodbye meeting, setting my boundaries in place. She thinks then he will stand up to them and we will be together.
I' don't want to believe the outcome, I think it's guesswork.
But the session was comforting and tried to empower me.
Definitely better than phone lines but I still don't believe she was psychic, more psychology. Useful and I don't regret going. It was nice to be told I'll be OK, to be given hugs and drinks.
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I read so much hope in your post, and if it was psychological, well … isn’t that better? Why does that not have value too? If anything there just as much substantial value.
I remember when I went to therapist in my 20s about this BF and I did everything wrong with that relationship: showed up unannounced several times, called him a lot, cried a lot, begged, got scammed by my first gypsy psychic. So this therapist knew it all, and what I did, and at the end of 10 sessions or something like that she just chuckled you’re gonna hear from him again, not right away but you will. And she was right. Oh my god, what saga! Was like two months or two years later I heard from him. And it still ain’t over, lol. However, what I can say there is love there and distance has made closer and there’s fondness there, even if we didn’t work out.
Here is some things I wish I knew back then,
1. what will be will (no work, no struggle)
2. If ppl around me can see it, that he loves me, and not just with therapists, psychics, but also friends and family, then I think there’s is reflection in that too, and there is truth in that too. Those love songs about how sometimes the only two ppl who don’t know they are in love with each other are the ppl in it, but everyone can see it… this may be you. Kinda like you’re in forest but you can’t see the forest cause there’s a bunch of stupid trees in the way. Lol… so if you can step outside your perception.
Be kind to yourself
Is this an arranged kind of marriage situation?
I also read you have so much fears too, and that’s ok. You’re human, I’m human, we do it. But don’t let your fears sabotage and take action. Don’t act from fear. Im not a psychic but I also think this will work out for you. You have you to trust that no matter what you will be ok, and I think you do know that, that what makes your post slightly different other I read on here.
If I may give some more advice here. Don’t argue with him in your head. The minute you start fighting with him in your head you’re expecting that perception of him to fail, and show up. I know this is manifesting woo-woo but imagine a version him that did take your side. What would that version of him feel like? Say? Have the best perception talk to you. If you need help you can message me and I can recommend some videos about inner conversations styles.
regrets:
Thank you for taking the time to post with some great comments.
I may seem positive, but I have phoned the psychics far too often desperately clinging on to what they say and increasing my anxiety.
This face to face, is a way of me weaning off my addiction.
It was useful and I don't regret going. I think one of the issues I have is not believing I will be OK. This tarot lady told me that too and I find it comforting hearing it.
Yes that makes sense not arguing with him in m head, I can see how holding onto the negativity not only impacts me but our relationship and sadly I haven't always followed this advice .
Thank you
regrets:
I'm feeling urge again to waste money and see someone.
There is a fayre next week which I'm tempted to go to.
I feel I need to know I'll be OK and want to know when.
I'm low for various reasons, all understandable and considering what I'm going through it's doing OK.
But I'd love a genuine psychic to tell me something positive.
I've been through a lot in life and really deserve better, so I'm frustrated. Also childhood trauma means I'm naturally disposed to anxiety and struggle believing ill be OK.
I know deep down I'm wasting money but I'm still tempted to go.
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