Same here. I joined in 2013 when I was in the middle of wanting to know whether me and my POI would get back together. When he married someone else, I stopped getting readings cold turkey. It took about 2 years for me to recover from the heartbreak but I didn't have much to contribute as I haven't gotten readings anymore.
Sometimes I read others stories and it breaks my heart because i know they are waiting for someone who will probably not come back anymore. I was strung along for years but we were never reunited. He is still married and has 3 kids.