I feel you!
I've got addicted various times over the years to situations, I guess its for that reassurance and comfort that everything is gonna be ok in your romance or whatever other situation and when you have that reading you feel good for five minutes at least.
The only advice I can give is to remember how many readings you've had with how ever many readers over the years about your situation and add up who really was accurate in the end, you'll find 99 % aren't very accurate long term or it's stock statements. If you get addicted again to a new situation, it's only going to be you wasting more time money and heartache over some situation and literally wasting your life on someone who if they really had interest would pop up in the time you've communicated to all these readers. I'm male and in mine and our experience if we really do love someone, even if we have commitment issues we are never really far as we are scared to lose you, even amongst our pride and our commitment phobic behavior it's really rare for a guy to run off and come back much later apologizing for vanishing and it being genuine.
Really if these situations are causing you to call psychics then maybe ask yourself if they're worth your time as a healthy relationship shouldn't be causing you to be calling these people. Best of luck and I hope you figure it out!