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Jili1945:

--- Quote from: HornetKick on May 24, 2021, 11:04:54 PM ---It is not necessarily true that a reader is a fraud for interjecting their own opinions, experiences, or bias. ALL readers do this even Yona. I know more about Yona's son than I care to admit and that begs a question as to why she even felt the need to talk about him, I'll never know.

I hate when readers do this especially when they talk about themselves, because the entire reading should be about me and why I called. Readers for some reason always act as if they know best although they fail to see they are only looking into a snapshot of your life. They aren't walking in your shoes nor are they involved in your story but they act like it.

Why is it so hard for them to just provide the information that was requested without infusing their own narrative into something they really don't know a great deal about? Just tell me what you see and steer them back when they flail.

It's annoying as F! but it is what it is and the risk we take as paying customers. You are absolutely right about Leanne and her rants and men hate. Many people have talked about that here. Many.

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You said very well, and that's the reason that I love Kisha.

Jili1945:

--- Quote from: Live and love on June 11, 2021, 01:23:39 AM ---Is Leanne on Keen?

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https://leannehalyburton.com

Live and love:

--- Quote from: Jili1945 on June 11, 2021, 04:17:02 AM ---
--- Quote from: Live and love on June 11, 2021, 01:23:39 AM ---Is Leanne on Keen?

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https://leannehalyburton.com

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Thank you  :)

Live and love:

--- Quote from: Jili1945 on June 11, 2021, 04:13:05 AM ---
--- Quote from: HornetKick on May 24, 2021, 11:04:54 PM ---It is not necessarily true that a reader is a fraud for interjecting their own opinions, experiences, or bias. ALL readers do this even Yona. I know more about Yona's son than I care to admit and that begs a question as to why she even felt the need to talk about him, I'll never know.

I hate when readers do this especially when they talk about themselves, because the entire reading should be about me and why I called. Readers for some reason always act as if they know best although they fail to see they are only looking into a snapshot of your life. They aren't walking in your shoes nor are they involved in your story but they act like it.

Why is it so hard for them to just provide the information that was requested without infusing their own narrative into something they really don't know a great deal about? Just tell me what you see and steer them back when they flail.

It's annoying as F! but it is what it is and the risk we take as paying customers. You are absolutely right about Leanne and her rants and men hate. Many people have talked about that here. Many.

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You said very well, and that's the reason that I love Kisha.

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That is true.  Kisha does not talk about herself, but she was dead wrong for me.  I wouldn't call her again.

jhuskindle:
Kisha was wrong for me too, said a guy wouldnt move forward with me who I ended up engaged to.





--- Quote from: Live and love on June 11, 2021, 07:18:35 PM ---
--- Quote from: Jili1945 on June 11, 2021, 04:13:05 AM ---
--- Quote from: HornetKick on May 24, 2021, 11:04:54 PM ---It is not necessarily true that a reader is a fraud for interjecting their own opinions, experiences, or bias. ALL readers do this even Yona. I know more about Yona's son than I care to admit and that begs a question as to why she even felt the need to talk about him, I'll never know.

I hate when readers do this especially when they talk about themselves, because the entire reading should be about me and why I called. Readers for some reason always act as if they know best although they fail to see they are only looking into a snapshot of your life. They aren't walking in your shoes nor are they involved in your story but they act like it.

Why is it so hard for them to just provide the information that was requested without infusing their own narrative into something they really don't know a great deal about? Just tell me what you see and steer them back when they flail.

It's annoying as F! but it is what it is and the risk we take as paying customers. You are absolutely right about Leanne and her rants and men hate. Many people have talked about that here. Many.

--- End quote ---

You said very well, and that's the reason that I love Kisha.

--- End quote ---
That is true.  Kisha does not talk about herself, but she was dead wrong for me.  I wouldn't call her again.

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