No problem.
I mean, at the end of the day it's an unregulated industry. If people choose to partake in it, you can't expect it to act like a regulated industry. Yes, there are going to be folks who are legitimately out of their minds claiming they are psychic (picture folks holding up "its the end of the world" signs) - they truly believe it, but most people would not. There are years and years of threads on review sites talking about how each and every psychic cost them money - and yet - people still call, write in, whatever.
If you do anything illegal at all, or use things outside of the way they are intended, then you can't be upset about results.
It does suck that people do tend to go for things they are really struggling with. It does suck that even the best readers who have real talent can be wrong. But at the end of the day. The real lesson is you should NEVER put your life in someone else's hands. When you can take a reading with "hey that would be cool" you're in a good spot.
The bad stuff happens when you are using readings as a way to delay GRIEF that badly needs to happen so that you can HEAL.
For example. Ex. When is he coming back? 2-3 months. Okay, 2-3 months go by/ Nothing, days start crawling, all o fa sudden you feel - the same way you felt at the breakup. Because you used the reading to skip over your grieving process. That is when people get the most upset at readings. When the grief they pushed off armed with "insider info" from psychics comes knocking back on their door when the timeline is up and nothing changed.
I'm with you. I wish I didn't spend what I had over the years, but I didn't have better coping skills. I had to learn a lot of things to move away from my "go to" to feel better in a heartbreak situation being talking to a psychic somehow. It may have hit my wallet HARD, but, it could have been worse. I can't blame psychics for existing. If it wasn't that, it would have been something else, I'm sure.
At the end of the day, it's escapism. Escaping from your current reality. Others use alcohol, drugs, sex, too much exercise, whatever, binge on netflix, oversleep, whatever.
But as far as it being a scam. I think it's only a scam when they promise results for doing work - e.g. gypsy scams. I don't think anyone truly believes "98% accuracy" - do we? DO WE?!?! Come on now.
Does that mean every place that has a sign that says "world's best coffee?" is also scamming us?!