@CancerBumble Don’t even engage this psychotic fool. Come over to discord.
LOL we’ve been making fun of her on discord. Which is why I replied. I’m a mod over there 🤣
Be kind. Playing devil's advocate here. Especially as a moderator, you shouldn't be bad-talking anyone. If someone's being rude, best practice is to ignore them and not attempt to exacerbate the situation. Why can't everyone just get along?
Actually she has told me to go die from covid multiple times. So nah, I’m good. Maybe you should take a look at her vile attacks on everyone on this forum.
That's not kind either. So why not be the bigger person and just ignore her? If she won't stop, then why don't you? I mean, I don't necessarily see the need to egg her on, or exacerbate the situation when you can just ignore her. I think both of you should play your part in being kinder. I know, especially with COVID being a thing, a lot of suffering going around, it can be tough. But why not try to just ignore for the time being? I think it would save you a lot of stress/frustration from her, and would help you, personally. I know that when I get angry, it affects me. But if I let it go, I feel better. I know it shouldn't be your place to have to do that, if, for example, she is being the one to initiate, but letting go and just ignoring her in such a situation really would help not only the situation at hand, but also your wellbeing. I've done a lot this past year or so to work on myself and my own happiness. And I've found that retaliating or getting angry at others, even if I'm not the one at fault only hurts me and drains me. It doesn't help the situation, and certainly doesn't help me feel happy. But that's just my two cents. Of course, it's your decision as to whether you want to take that advice. You're an adult and you make your own choices. But I sincerely recommend it (: I hope you have a lovely week.
I am sorry...
This is coming from you who harassed and insulted me, calling me a retard and all sorts of horrible names, having never interacted with me before, just because I said Yona wasn’t accurate for me? A couple of people messaged me to see if I was okay because it was so extreme and unprovoked. You are who is preaching “be kind”?! Wonders never cease.
I don’t remember calling you a retard. And I certainly wouldn’t have said that for the reason you’ve stated. Are you sure you aren’t assuming the reason, I may have said that? Because that wouldn’t have been why I would have said such a thing.
Regardless, as I’ve stated. I’ve had a lot of growth during this time. I’m not that person anymore and my outlook and personality have changed a lot. So if I had said that, I apologize. I’m thinking clearly now. So I stand by what I said regarding being kind. And I think I’m in a place where I can give that advice now, after this change.
I think we should all just be kind to one another. And I don’t think you that bringing up what you had would help this situation between these two. I think it would only cause further conflict between myself and you, and I think bringing that up in such a tone is only meant to create conflict. And I think that’s unneeded and unnecessary, so let’s not. If I said something rude to you, I’m sorry.
But again, have a nice day, and I hope that you’re staying safe with the pandemic.
