@new it may be permanent in your case. I was just telling my experience.
Everyone's situation is different. When I was first started calling psychics I would ask is this over or will we reconnect and many psychics would say yes depending on what they saw. Some psychics would see the "BIG" picture and tell me "No", so I thought well no way they were lying. Well turns out depending on the reader and their abilities and how far ahead they are able to read and what type of reading I'm getting then to that reader they will interpret that as a "NO"
I don't generally like to get readings from Empaths b/c for me they will read the feelings at the time of the call or energy. I know what his feelings are and so that just doesn't appeal to me. Readers that use Spirit Guides, I'm on the fence about b/c I don't know what type of Spirit Guide they are using to obtain this information. Some say they talk to my guides and his guides or ect. I know Kisha uses a guide as well. Guides also relay messages in a format that either I or the psychic must interpret. That information can be true or false or misinterpreted.
Now, b/c I use to only be concerned about timing and when he would come back I mislabeled a LOT of psychics as being wrong b/c he didn't contact me on a certain day and we did "reconnect" when they said we wouldnt. I don't call as much now to psychics b/c my needs have changed and the type of psychic I need truly need has changed. For myself, I need a psychic that can read below the surface, behavior patterns, can interpret feeling from beyond at the time of the call. Lot's of people don't need this, and just need to know if he'll call or contact them and when or if they will get a job and when.
I remember calling psychics when I had a job interview at a company and asking psychics if I would get the job,some said no and some said yes. Only one psychic told me what was below the surface of a yes or no. That psychic told me that they liked me and I'm a candidate for the position, and I will be offered the job and will not be able to accept it. So that is why I was getting yes and no from different readers. Some readers picked up the company offering me the job so they came up with YES, some psychics picked up on me not working there and the answer was NO.
Surface readings like you are going to go here and there and do this and that with him is BLAH BLAH BLAH to me. That may be good for someone else, but not for me. That is what I liked about Cookie she didn't just give me a surface reading she picked up on his inconsistency and she told me why it has happened and why it will continue and she told me it will continue pretty much until a certain thing happens. She told me that after that happens I can take him seriously. She didn't give me time frames, but she told me what to remember. That's why Barbara4846 told me that when he comes back and talks about marriage and proposes what I needed to do. He is not going to magically change or shift overnight. Cookie told me that in his mind he has decided that I'm the woman he wants to marry. He decided when he first met me, she said that's a done deal you are it you are the one, however his actions and follow through is the problem. She empowered me with additional knowledge to take forward in dealing with him.
I say pick a reader or readers that is right for you and YOUR situation as well as YOUR expectations for the reader.
@Jana I understand what you mean. You would like for something to happen, and nothing is happening. I don't know if you have tried to contact him or not. I also don't know if you have asked a psychic what will happen if you contact him. I'm not telling you that you shouldn't give up, calling psychics is expensive and if you are not getting the results that you want, then make the decision that is best for you..
