Bostongirl, don't be mad for me, he IS my twin flame, it's a load of horrible life lessons that I'm learning and growing from. I would not hold onto anyone because a reader said they were coming back.
bstalling, for me , NO, this is not a pleasant relationship, but he's helping me grow, through the pain. I know this is my twin flame because there's a neon sign over his head that says "this is your twin flame". JK but I have known this man for over 25 years and just in the last 5 years it all came clear to me that this IS in fact a twin flame situation, and the only decent explanation for what has happened with this person. I'm not going to get too into it because it's not really open for debate in chat rooms but when you know you know.
Newlife, I agree with your definition. It's not a lovey dovey relationship, and I wouldn't wish this on anyone.
bstalling, you got it backwards, soulmates are kind gentle loving relationships and twin flames bring up the crap so you can heal it. However, the technical term doesn't really matter, as long as we understand that these are two completely different relationships.
sunshineluv7 Don't worry about me, I'm doing great, haven't had a break up in over 15 years.