spiritualist reader ( Cookie) When was she dead wrong for you?

[Kate]

I would suggest the reason she is telling you the reading could change, is because right now it can be nothing but platonic. You're not physically together.
When you meet - Cookie will be able to see more about what is going on - and likely the reading will change and she will see more physical connection.

She is not as good as she used to be - she is a very good short term viewer imo... but not necessarily long term.  I've had great readings with Cookie over the years, but lately it's been hard (the last 12 months.)

She needs direct questions and you to feed her info in some cases for the visions to come. So I wouldn't take it as a guarantee that nothing significant will happen with this person...

Question for cookie vets—I have been slowly starting to connect and communicate with someone new abroad. I am relocating to that country. I have a weirdly strange distraction with this person for some strange reason. I’m also fairly certain Kisha has mentioned this man to me as my last relationship several times (height, age, location) So I’ve asked cookie about him twice and the second time she said he’s attracted to me, infatuated with me, distracted by thoughts of me—we will be platonic friends. Obviously I’m confused by that because I don’t wanna be platonic and it doesn’t sound like he does. She said the reading would change once we start talking more and I moved. So, questions:

1. When you finally got to know a person better, did the outcome improve?
2. What she just wrong in saying nothing significant would happen with a person when, in fact, it was significant?

Feedback appreciated.

[Luckystar]

"She is not as good as she used to be - she is a very good short term viewer imo... but not necessarily long term.  I've had great readings with Cookie over the years, but lately it's been hard (the last 12 months."

I agree with this. Haven't read with her in a few years because the last two readings I felt like she got absolutely nothing and was trying to guess info. Like 10 years ago she got random predictions for me though.

[Kate]

"She is not as good as she used to be - she is a very good short term viewer imo... but not necessarily long term.  I've had great readings with Cookie over the years, but lately it's been hard (the last 12 months."

I agree with this. Haven't read with her in a few years because the last two readings I felt like she got absolutely nothing and was trying to guess info. Like 10 years ago she got random predictions for me though.

Well over the last few years I've honestly had amazing readings from Cookie and she's been more right for me randomly, than any other reader. Ki But now you have to ask her direct questions, and often need to give her some lead info before she can get the flashes of info she sees to enable a reading.
She sees things, like on a movie screen, so the predictions can be random and she'll just fire out what she sees - so it may be a minor thing, that can seem as if it will be major.

Even so - she is still very accurate for me. It's just not a great experience to read with her.  She can set you on a psychic spin based on something she has seen and if she doesn't get a lot of info - she'll telly you to call back when "x" happens and then she'll be able to see more.. ..

Her long term predictions are not good for me - misinterpreted.. when they happen, I know where she went wrong.
So now - when I read with her - I ask her a specific question. If she comes back with "I believe" or "It could" etc.. I don't trust it as much as "It shows" "I see"

[Apalm831]

Thank you. That is helpful. Yes, she’s nowhere near as good as she used to be. It was always the random things she would yell at me that would come true in the past 😂 she does say he’s definitely a part of my future, so we’ll just wait I guess and take it from there.

[Kate]

Thank you. That is helpful. Yes, she’s nowhere near as good as she used to be. It was always the random things she would yell at me that would come true in the past 😂 she does say he’s definitely a part of my future, so we’ll just wait I guess and take it from there.

I really feel she is now, a short term reader.. . Her readings change based on what the energy is in the moment. That never really used to be the case ... but she can only see so much, until a situation changes, then she will get fresh information.  So it's confusing, and not always helpful - and can be expensive for information that doesn't really build you or inform you inside.

I don't like criticising her however.  I mean - it is not easy reading on instant chat lines.  Very few readers can tune in right away and give accurate info. She's been in the game a long time, and has a solid reputation of seeing the future with the majority of her readers - as the length of her threads on this forum show...

People go back to her for a reason - her queues were not that long because it was just new people trying her..

I appreciate that she doesn't sugar coat. She doesn't care what you think about her, or whether you will call her back in the future, she is going to give it to you as she sees it.

Has she been wrong? Sure!  But not really on major things per se.. a lot of minor things... And as mentioned, she now needs info to start getting her visions. I don't trust her 100% - but she is still mostly right.

I do believe she wants the best for her clients. She wants us to be independent, strong, able to move on when things don't work, and confident that we can attract any man/woman.

I don't think I'll get to a point where I would drop cookie as a reader - but her readings don't always leave me in a good place - so that has to be taken into account - there are many others that I prefer reading with.
Cookie doesn't leave me in a calm state ...ever..

Kisha was the best for me over recent years.  Very easy to understand and again, mostly right.
Yona is also great for me - she's a balanced reader to talk to, mostly right, has helped me a lot.

[Apalm831]

This was another thing that really confused me:

She picked up a third party but I’m so confused…she said it was a relationship, then a friendship, then someone he’s involved with, then not serious, then that they work together, then that she’s just someone he spends time with he doesn’t want a relationship. What? I’m so confused if anyone has had any experience w cookie totally screwing up third parties or misinformation of the nature of a third party lemme know

[Kate]

This was another thing that really confused me:

She picked up a third party but I’m so confused…she said it was a relationship, then a friendship, then someone he’s involved with, then not serious, then that they work together, then that she’s just someone he spends time with he doesn’t want a relationship. What? I’m so confused if anyone has had any experience w cookie totally screwing up third parties or misinformation of the nature of a third party lemme know

Kind of - She once mistook ME for a third party.  She described me and said he had sex with "her" and she was "around him" - I said that's me!! (I am pretty distinctive visually - so I know she was talking about me) She said - but you haven't seen him for 3 weeks - I said "no - i saw him two weeks ago today!"... which was when she saw him having sex.. Seriously..

She then said I would find out he is on a dating site - I think that is a go to line for Cookie - she has told me that for every non-commital man I've dated - Still - he is not on a dating site. He has no need to - he's got his pick of women right now without more issues on a dating site.

She also said he would get back with his ex but it wouldn't work.. but in the process of telling me that, when I questioned if he would come back after he got back together with her, she said that it may not be a committed relationship... and I'm like "huh???" How is getting back together with an ex not committed..? Having sex with both of us? Really - it's not his style.

I know this guy pretty well.. he doesn't like f**king ppl's lives around. It's one reason why he is scared of commitment - he doesn't want to hurt someone by getting into a relationship and then having to break up....

So in short - yes - she can be confusing.

Having said that - she is usually the first one to pick up on a 3rd party if there is one..

[Live and love]

This was another thing that really confused me:

She picked up a third party but I’m so confused…she said it was a relationship, then a friendship, then someone he’s involved with, then not serious, then that they work together, then that she’s just someone he spends time with he doesn’t want a relationship. What? I’m so confused if anyone has had any experience w cookie totally screwing up third parties or misinformation of the nature of a third party lemme know

Like she was trying to hit all the bases?  That's what I found.  She spoke fast and said a lot.  And when I showed interest , she then narrowed in on it and provided details.  I think that she is a very good cold reader.

[Kate]

This was another thing that really confused me:

She picked up a third party but I’m so confused…she said it was a relationship, then a friendship, then someone he’s involved with, then not serious, then that they work together, then that she’s just someone he spends time with he doesn’t want a relationship. What? I’m so confused if anyone has had any experience w cookie totally screwing up third parties or misinformation of the nature of a third party lemme know

Like she was trying to hit all the bases?  That's what I found.  She spoke fast and said a lot.  And when I showed interest , she then narrowed in on it and provided details.  I think that she is a very good cold reader.

She's not a cold reader.  I've been reading with her for a long time and had AMAZING things happen that she has seen with no input from me. She has a real talent. She's not just reading based on what you say. It's just that now, she does need some lead in info to get flashes of what is ahead... however, if you are new to her, you could certinaly be fooled into thinking she is simply a cold reader.

[Joy]

Ahem... The wait for her was what was really jaw-dropping in my case. This is probably the most frustrating part. She must have some gift, if so many people swear by it, but with that long a wait, hitting the mal chance to talk to her when she was lukewarm or below lukewarm was a real bummer. My reading was in 2020, which, from what I read here, must have been after the mind-blowing stage. It's been three years now, and to this day, I can't tell who she was describing and what she was talking about. I could tell even back then, and now, I can tell with 100% certainty that the person she was talking about was very different from the person I asked about. I did try to note that a few times and even give info, she objected and told me she got exactly the person I asked about and kept going with some stuff. I really felt no desire to get back on her queue to try my luck on a day that would be better for her. If the waiting time was not so long and unpredictable, I may have tried again to see if I could get a good reading, but it is not even convenient to do it. For a not very long period of time I suspected she mixed energies and read one of my colleagues instead of my POI, but then I learned some things, and it definitely wasn't that colleague either.

Oh, the person I asked about was a guy, so she got that right.

[Apalm831]

Yeah I get it. She’s nowhere near what she used to be..it really sucks. But she’s got that line for a good reason, though it has gotten noticeably shorter. Now it’s in the 40s she used to have a line of 90+ people. She’s not what she was, I totally understand if you were underwhelmed

[Live and love]

This was another thing that really confused me:

She picked up a third party but I’m so confused…she said it was a relationship, then a friendship, then someone he’s involved with, then not serious, then that they work together, then that she’s just someone he spends time with he doesn’t want a relationship. What? I’m so confused if anyone has had any experience w cookie totally screwing up third parties or misinformation of the nature of a third party lemme know

Like she was trying to hit all the bases?  That's what I found.  She spoke fast and said a lot.  And when I showed interest , she then narrowed in on it and provided details.  I think that she is a very good cold reader.

She's not a cold reader.  I've been reading with her for a long time and had AMAZING things happen that she has seen with no input from me. She has a real talent. She's not just reading based on what you say. It's just that now, she does need some lead in info to get flashes of what is ahead... however, if you are new to her, you could certinaly be fooled into thinking she is simply a cold reader.

Maybe not for you, but for me she was 100% a cold reader.  Her tidal wave of information thrown at at me was bound to hit on one aspect of my life, yet in this case she hit on absolutely nothing. .  When she said something about pregnancy I was aghast.  She paused for a second, i assume because she thought she hit on something I could relate to. She proceeded to flood with me with information about "a" pregnancy, I believe in hopes that something would stick.  What she didn't know was that a pregnancy was so far removed from anything in my life that she made me gasp. .. almost laugh.   I would never call her again, although she was very nice.   

[Aaron0326]

This was another thing that really confused me:

She picked up a third party but I’m so confused…she said it was a relationship, then a friendship, then someone he’s involved with, then not serious, then that they work together, then that she’s just someone he spends time with he doesn’t want a relationship. What? I’m so confused if anyone has had any experience w cookie totally screwing up third parties or misinformation of the nature of a third party lemme know

Like she was trying to hit all the bases?  That's what I found.  She spoke fast and said a lot.  And when I showed interest , she then narrowed in on it and provided details.  I think that she is a very good cold reader.

She's not a cold reader.  I've been reading with her for a long time and had AMAZING things happen that she has seen with no input from me. She has a real talent. She's not just reading based on what you say. It's just that now, she does need some lead in info to get flashes of what is ahead... however, if you are new to her, you could certinaly be fooled into thinking she is simply a cold reader.

Maybe not for you, but for me she was 100% a cold reader.  Her tidal wave of information thrown at at me was bound to hit on one aspect of my life, yet in this case she hit on absolutely nothing. .  When she said something about pregnancy I was aghast.  She paused for a second, i assume because she thought she hit on something I could relate to. She proceeded to flood with me with information about "a" pregnancy, I believe in hopes that something would stick.  What she didn't know was that a pregnancy was so far removed from anything in my life that she made me gasp. .. almost laugh.   I would never call her again, although she was very nice.

During my last reading with cookie, I experienced some of what you were saying. As someone who has a very high threshold for who I believe is genuine / who believes a number of the super popular readers here are cold readers however, I can say with full confidence that Cookie has an unbelievable gift.  She has told me things so highly specific and unusual that the mathematical odds of guessing them are impossible. 

[Live and love]

This was another thing that really confused me:

She picked up a third party but I’m so confused…she said it was a relationship, then a friendship, then someone he’s involved with, then not serious, then that they work together, then that she’s just someone he spends time with he doesn’t want a relationship. What? I’m so confused if anyone has had any experience w cookie totally screwing up third parties or misinformation of the nature of a third party lemme know

Like she was trying to hit all the bases?  That's what I found.  She spoke fast and said a lot.  And when I showed interest , she then narrowed in on it and provided details.  I think that she is a very good cold reader.

She's not a cold reader.  I've been reading with her for a long time and had AMAZING things happen that she has seen with no input from me. She has a real talent. She's not just reading based on what you say. It's just that now, she does need some lead in info to get flashes of what is ahead... however, if you are new to her, you could certinaly be fooled into thinking she is simply a cold reader.

Maybe not for you, but for me she was 100% a cold reader.  Her tidal wave of information thrown at at me was bound to hit on one aspect of my life, yet in this case she hit on absolutely nothing. .  When she said something about pregnancy I was aghast.  She paused for a second, i assume because she thought she hit on something I could relate to. She proceeded to flood with me with information about "a" pregnancy, I believe in hopes that something would stick.  What she didn't know was that a pregnancy was so far removed from anything in my life that she made me gasp. .. almost laugh.   I would never call her again, although she was very nice.

During my last reading with cookie, I experienced some of what you were saying. As someone who has a very high threshold for who I believe is genuine / who believes a number of the super popular readers here are cold readers however, I can say with full confidence that Cookie has an unbelievable gift.  She has told me things so highly specific and unusual that the mathematical odds of guessing them are impossible.

  Well then I am envious.  I wish i could same the same. She was a complete dud for me.  It's seems to be the same story over and over again in that not all the readers , regardless of how highly reviewed, work for everyone.

[Kate]

This was another thing that really confused me:

She picked up a third party but I’m so confused…she said it was a relationship, then a friendship, then someone he’s involved with, then not serious, then that they work together, then that she’s just someone he spends time with he doesn’t want a relationship. What? I’m so confused if anyone has had any experience w cookie totally screwing up third parties or misinformation of the nature of a third party lemme know

yeah totally.. she reunited me with a PoI in 2017/2018 with her advice.. I full on know spirit was working through her to bring healing to a situation that had become too hard for me to handle.. I followed her advice - and had an amazing outcome to a situation. They were the best years I had with Cookie...

Now her readings are pretty painful.  It's very hard to read with her for just a few mins.  In readings where I have stayed on with her for a lot longer in the past, the reading has been better the longer we have progressed. 

But instant chat forums are a killer.  She's great at it - because she can pick up fast. But I have the need for something more than a 3 - 10 min read with flashes of info that leave me fearing the future, and feeling out of control - and that is what happens now when I read with her...