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Letting go old energy so new people can come in

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Yaris123:
A couple of readers  have told me that they see new people coming into my love life but I need to let go of the past first. Has anyone heard the same thing from readers? I get annoyed hearing this because I feel that the only way I can let go of the past is if someone new comes into my life because it would help me see that perhaps theres another chance of having a meaningful connection with someone . I feel that the reason that im having a hard time letting go is because I think and fear that I will never the same connection that I had with my ex.

AwakenRN:
Which readers told you this?

Yaris123:

--- Quote from: AwakenRN on August 14, 2020, 09:15:42 PM ---Which readers told you this?

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The ones that come to mind are Cookie,Spiritual Intervention and Kelly Callaghan.

Love2lovenj:
Yaris, i feel your pain.  I was in the same position my connection was strong that even when i would meet someone new i would be comparing the two.  Hang in there girl.  You just have to be open to new love.  Don't let the fear of no one will ever be like the ex hold off from meeting someone great.

Kayrid:
I think, and no offence intended at all because i have been there and still go there sometimes, but to let go / allow new love in I think you really have to work on your self-love and deep rooted issues as to why you feel a certain way and be able to be ok on your own.  Try to figure our your attachment style, etc.  Working on this helped me tons, but it's not easy.

Hang in there!

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