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My story after speaking to damn near every psychic
Psyche1111:
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Nothing has happened
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July isn't over yet. There's also like 10 different retrogrades happening right now. I will say this is true for almost everything in my life (be it work, relationships etc.) When I stop worrying about it and just trust things always work out for my good, that's when things work out or I get an answer. The answer might not be what you are thinking or wanting it to be at this moment or it could be the happily ever after you have been waiting for. For example, reconciliation could mean you see the person and get back together or it could mean you both have a conversation and move on. If you really know in your heart you and your person will be together again then it really doesn't matter if the timeframe the psychic gives you is off. You actually have a real-life connection with this person and that does count for something. If you know in your heart you won't be together then just know someone is even better for you. Honestly, I had some bad breakups and POIs and so wanted things to work out. Now in hindsight, every one of those people was so wrong for me and I thank GOD I'm not with them.
Lalalola:
Any update for you?
Qcnm:
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I got a text message from POI 2 days ago asking how I am. I did not respond as I don’t think I want to go back there.
In terms of predicting contact Leeloo got the exact date correct! She said we would reconcile as well but right now I honestly don’t feel like I want to. I obviously don’t know what would happen if I did respond. I don’t know if he actually wants me back or is just checking in and being the narcissist he is.
QofC got the time period right. She told me that we would have only 1 chance to reconcile. I am guessing this is the chance?
Yona said she saw him coming back around this time. She said she didn’t see me going back because I would have met someone else and I would choose the other guy. Well I have met someone and literally got into a relationship a week ago. What’s confusing me though is that she said she thinks the guy would be someone I met at work, it definitely wouldn’t be ina social setting. But I met my new bf at a party?
Qcnm:
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--- Quote from: Lalalola on August 10, 2020, 08:28:57 PM ---Any update for you?
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I got a text message from POI 2 days ago asking how I am. I did not respond as I don’t think I want to go back there.
In terms of predicting contact Leeloo got the exact date correct! She said we would reconcile as well but right now I honestly don’t feel like I want to. I obviously don’t know what would happen if I did respond. I don’t know if he actually wants me back or is just checking in and being the narcissist he is.
QofC got the time period right. She told me that we would have only 1 chance to reconcile. I am guessing this is the chance?
Yona said she saw him coming back around this time. She said she didn’t see me going back because I would have met someone else and I would choose the other guy. Well I have met someone and literally got into a relationship a week ago. What’s confusing me though is that she said she thinks the guy would be someone I met at work, it definitely wouldn’t be ina social setting. But I met my new bf at a party?
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I think you did the right thing by ignoring though I know how hard that is. If he's a true narc & you allow him back in the cycle will seem to never end. I'm going through this right now & it's extremely difficult because he keeps coming back no matter how many times I kick him out of my life. I haven't "yet" found the strength to keep the door permanently shut. It's become like an addiction/trauma bond/codependency more than it is love
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You’re right. Stephanie Theresa has said she sees him coming back and then he will leave again then will come back and leave again. This cycle was supposed to go on for a while until I get fed up and realising that I deserve more. So I am choosing not to go through it. As much as I love him, I choose my sanity.
I hope you find the strength to shut that door forever. I know how difficult it is. There was a time when I thought I wouldn’t be able to live without this man, he was everything to me. I am so so glad I finally have the strength to walk away and can see the situation for what it really is.
Qcnm:
Just wanted to add that E. Kelly got the exact day of contact right.
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