There’s a good way to give advice and this isn’t it. When I saw this thread I thought the same thing - you’re only going to be hurting yourself with the answer but that’s something everybody has to learn on their own.
We’re all on here for the same reasons. Regardless if we’re reading on a current bf/gf, career or an ex - we are looking for some sort of answer or guidance. Stop acting like you’re better than someone else just because you got past your “binging” or because you’re not reading on the same thing.
That being said, I do agree that it’s just going to hurt you and drive you crazy in the long run. Just let it play out, it’ll either last forever or it won’t. Either way it’ll come to light one day. I would search “empath” on here, most can look into third parties. Usually they’ll state on their page if they won’t read on it.