Njlady, thanks for sharing. That’s such a shame about what happened with the woman...I guess you can tell someone what’s going on, but that doesn’t mean they’ll listen or take action.
I appreciate your thoughts. You’ve seen this before yourself and know what this it’s like. The old poi is on the outside a responsible, caring, altruistic person and a liar, cheater and cold one on the inside.
I heard that the woman he was involved with was very nice, someone he had a lot in common with and was prepared to “change” for. What you said about change coming from within and dependent on if it suits someone or not is spot-on!