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aries1995:

--- Quote from: jas on June 21, 2020, 01:07:06 AM ---Well, the good news is that you have taken the first step by acknowledging the problem - Bravo!

The bad news is that you are blaming the psychics.  I get it - been there, done that.  Stop blaming them - take responsibility - you can do this!!! 

Remember, baby steps.  Start slowly. 

I have a new way of tricking myself out of calling.  When I feel like picking up the phone and spending a quick $25 to $50 I log onto my credit card account and make a payment in that amount.  It's working, my balance is finally starting to come down.

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This is actually a brilliant idea! You could even make a list of things you need to buy but put off then each time you feel like getting a reading buy something off the list?

Also, you are not alone in this! everyone if not most people on this site have believed ‘predictions’ that have never/will never happen at some point- myself included. We’re all here for you :)

jz507:
Hi, who on psychic source has predictions manifested for you? Did yona's predictions come true for you?

tshine17:
I don’t have anything helpful to say, but I’m sending you so much love. I hope you get to the root of this and things turn around soon:

Seeker23:

--- Quote from: Cancersun22 on June 20, 2020, 11:03:47 PM ---Hey everyone.
I have been going to psychics for around 5 years. But more frequently for the past 2 years.
I can say, that I am delusional because of all these so called ''psychics'' my relationship have sadly been affected by this and I have hit rock bottom. I am now jealous, low self esteem, depressed and I have horrible anxiety + all the money I wasted on them. 

They have said things like that me and my boyfriend will break up (a year ago). that he wouls propose (last fall and some said this summer..) that I would get a job opportunity and that I would travel for work. NEVER HAPPEND. I just feel like I secretly believe them still (some of the predictions I am ''waiting on'') And it drives me insane. I feel Insane.

This have ruined my life.
I just keep crying, I feel like my relationship is over, like it's going down. Due to how much my brain have taken in and how delusional I have gotten. I just want to wake up from this night mare, I feel trapped and I don't know what to do anymore. I have even thought about taking my own life because I feel hopeless.

I have fed my brain with so many predictions and a lot of them have caused stress, worries and so on.

I now get super jealous, thinking that something bad will happen or that my boyfriend is bad or hiding things from me. Like I see him as a bad cruel person, in my dreams he cheats, i cheat, he breaks up with me, or he is just super cruel and flirts with other women and so on. I CAN'T ESCAPE IT EVEN WHILE I SLEEP. But he is the most caring loving guy.

And what I hate the most is probably how jealous I have become, how much I stare at what he stares at and how angry I get if he talks to a girl. It brings me down and It makes me feel like shit.

So, I don't understand why my brain keeps doing this to me!

I just feel super lost because, I don't know where to turn.
But I got to say that It's a real sad addiction and all these scammers are horrible.
I just don't wish this upon anyone else.
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Hun, I have kind of been through this. I started seeing psychics over a break up. My self esteem was hit pretty hard, some of the predictions I took hope in the possibility they were right.

In fact, my self esteem has not really recovered. A lot of what happen and with the ex made me more anxious of a person. That anxiousness, ended up turning into weight gain.

I finally got fed up with it after seeing so many not come through.  It does happen. It has been some time since I have seen a psychic.

But can I say one thing, a person that is truly delusional cannot acknowledge or knows they are delusional.

You sound healthy, hun. You are being given delusions that are affecting you and you are seeing what is doing to you. Yes, it may seem you are delusional, but not quiet. You did not generate all this stuff on your own. So many influences to it.


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HornetKick:
No matter what a psychic says, one always needs to look at what is actually happening as opposed to what we really want to happen. You'll start to merge things that aren't really realistic and conflate what a reader tells you into things that are not really there or were never happening in the first place. If it's in relation to a relationship just ask the SO so you'll know the truth instead of wondering where you at. It's harder in the short term, but more meaningful in the long term.

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