Ugh finally some progression with my love life:
I was dating a guy this past spring that I was super into but we broke things off. We stayed friends but as these things tend to do, we just fizzled out. Communication slowly stopped by mid-June.
I've been reading with Barbara about monthly and I tend to just do a general read. This particular POI has been coming up in EVERY reading. She's been adamant he's coming back. She said I'd be surprised but happy.
Even back in June when I asked her about 3 guys, 1 being this POI, she was certain I'd end up with him. I read with her a week ago and I was asking for a career reading, POI still came through in the reading haha
We ended up talking last night. I called him because I was having an anxiety attack and honestly my fingers just went to his name on my phone and I figured I had nothing to lose. After talking about the issues that sparked the attack, he says "I don't know if this is the right time to bring this up but I miss you."
He admitted that he thinks about me all the time, and that he stepped back because he thought I deserved better. He acknowledged that he didn't put in as much effort as he should have. He hasn't dated or been with anyone else since me. Basically everything we always hope to hear from an ex lol
I was totally caught off guard like Barbara said. I had hoped this would happen but I had worked on letting him go and wasn't holding onto predictions about him. I even unfollowed/unfriended him everywhere so I wouldn't be reminded of him and so he wouldn't have access to what's going on in my life. I stopped asking about him specifically in any readings, and just focusing on my work and self development. I've been talking to different guys and dating.
I'm still pretty shocked about all this and while we aren't totally reconciled, Barbara was pretty certain about him specifically. I know a lot of psychics say an ex will come back making you hang on to false hope, but Barbara's told me they wouldn't when I've inquired about other exes so she's not fairytale.
Timing: in the June/July readings Barbara was getting August/September for something to happen. In the August reading, she was getting October but she thought it'd be September.
She has consistently predicted a new person coming in (consistent characteristics/description over several readings). I still haven't met him, so I'll keep you all posted if I do.