The first reading I had with her was back in march and I remember her saying a bunch of random things like write this down, remember this, but she did accurately predict an event that unfolded between my bf and me.
The second time I had read with her, she had done a similar thing. She had mentioned a specific word that he had used, which triggered the argument. But something I find really interesting is that she mentioned Chicago, and she said what does this mean? And I said I dont know.. she said well there’s something coming up with it. And he feels a lot of guilt over this.. and I said well his ex and him traveled there? Not thinking much into it.. she said there’s an association with lies, maybe cheating? But he doesn’t think about Chicago in a fond way, he’s disgusted.. and I thought great, he’s thinking about his ex.. so she progresses to tell me more stuff.. which all ended up being true etc.
So fast forward, we had a discussion New Year’s Day, and since we’re finally in a good and stable place, I decided to ask him something that’s bothering me. When we had broken up, it was bc o this depression so he can focus on him, whatever. Well during that time, he “dated” a girl twice. He says that they had just made out. I saw a toothbrush in the holder, where I used to keep mine, in one of the selfies he had sent me when we got back together and when I confronted him he claims “oh it was randomly in my drawer” (he uses an electric, this was manual, I knew it was bullshit.. it had toothpaste on it) and it bothered me for awhile. We had a serious talk when he decided that he was “all in” with us and he claims tat all they did was make out, and he shut down and kinda didnt’ want to discuss it. So, fast forward 7 months later, we hosted a Friendsgiving at his house, his roommate just broke up w/his girl. So I was giving him advice, etc, and he says yeah sometimes you breaku p, but get back together and things are way better, like you guys (he was drinking, and RARELY drinks) and he goes I just don’t want her to go fuck someone else, you know like danny did.. and I was stunned.. he saw the look on my face, and def. had the “oh shit” moment.. so it bothered me massively.. I asked him about it, other fights took place (to bigger issues, so it got buried by the wayside) so.. New Year’s Day he asks me if his roommate could come to dinner w/us I said sure.. then it reminded me of that talk.. I give him the classic line “please just be honest, I promise I wont be mad” and I ask about the girl.. he claims.. that they only had “oral sex, nothing penetrative” which truth be told I really feel is a lie, because you dont have slumber parties and not go all the way.. especially with a toothbrush in the holder (it took 2 months for him to invite me to sleep over... let alone some random girl?).. when we went to a wedding together a month after all this “went down” I posted the pics on IG (at this point, not knowing he even dated anyone else.. since we talked the entire break up and were “working things out”) and I noticed the random girl unfollowed him on IG after I posted them (he has like 30 friends, its easy to stalk lol) but here’s the kicker.. the girl.. I looked her up on FB after I found out about her.. SHE MOVED TO CHICAGO.. in august.. so when Barbara threw Chicago out, stated he was feeling massive guilt associated with it, and there were lies.. well... boy was/is she right.. I thought that was remarkable.
