I can't say that is the case when I get a reading, which was your question.
I am inclined to agree with love2 that readers are picking up your fears. If you are calling looking or validation that the connection will remain, it could have the opposite effect. Trust in what you see before you and know that it will work out. I know that is a tall order and so very hard to do but if you can master it, it will improve your relationship tremendously.