I have rarely seen anyone say this reader was wrong. But just for a real honest take here, this is the email reading she gave me on my POI in 2018. And I’m sorry but I am just not buying in to the idea that it comes true years later. Honestly I think that is holding out hope for a downright false reading. She was accurate on the past & my feelings about our breakup. But he ended up getting married in 2020 to the woman he started seeing right after me (or actually I realized later he was with her before me and that was part of the deception). They are still married and I have absolutely no interest in reconnecting with him ever. I ran into him one time in a very strange way in public out of the blue this past summer. We didn’t speak thankfully and I don’t even know if he recognized me. All this for background to explain - she was just wrong. There’s no it will come true later here and the predictions just haven’t happened yet since I have zero interest in ever speaking with him again. I just really needed to share this to say she was not always right. Also my phone reading with her had even a more positive reading and it never happened. Not anyone is good for everyone.
“There is quite a bit of confusion surrounding this breakup. I am getting that there was no real closure, and because of that there are feelings of dissatisfaction and disappointment that linger on. In addition to feeling those feelings, there are still questions that are not answered, or at least answered truthfully. That is key here. Some of the things he has to say or explanations he has are not adding up, and you know deep down that he has not been entirely forthcoming with you regarding the break up and his reasoning. These feelings are going to be put at ease soon.
There are things that he was going through and feelings and issues that he internalized that you will become privy to in the next 6 months or by June. Regardless, you will get some solid answers and a reasoning for his actions. You will get a more truthful side of him and a side that is far more forthcoming than he has been. Most of his reasons for the state you two are in now are self-centered in nature, and more about him and his emotions than they are you, and what you did wrong.
When you and him are able to have this conversation, and you get a more honest and truthful version of him, there is a sense of healing that will take place. There may be contact prior to this, but bear in mind that any contact prior to the contact in a 6 will not hold the same significance. The timeline of this particular communication cannot be changed or accelerated, so do not feel discouraged if you have contact with him prior to that and do not feel clarity. It is coming, in its own time.
I am getting that you and him can rebuild what appears to be a distant friendship and move forward in a more positive way after having the necessary conversation. Reconciliation does not look to be on the radar in the foreseeable future, but there is the potential to heal and grow from the past and to maintain some sense of a friendship. There is a potential to have an open line of communication at all times going forward, so he is showing as being in your life, if you want him to be. So, he can be in your life in the future to some extent but not in the capacity as a boyfriend, at least for the foreseeable future.”
