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How to avoid a judgmental reader???

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Sparkle002:

--- Quote from: LillyPad99 on June 04, 2020, 01:11:52 AM ---Ugh...Leanne. Don’t ever tell her that your POI is an ex or whatever. All aboard the judgment train, to include stops at: “I don’t know why women bother” town and “my latest book that isn’t selling so well is on Amazon, you should read it” ville. Jesus.

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I concur! She's another one smh

Love2lovenj:
Omg, yes Leanne is so anti-ex that i totally avoid reading with her after she gave me the 5 minute of why can't people leave the past behind lecture.   Good grief woman, just answer my questions. 🤪

Jenjen:

--- Quote from: Love2lovenj on June 03, 2020, 11:57:38 PM ---Can anyone give some tips on how to know if a reader is judgemental before scheduling a reading with them? I know that sounds odd to ask but there is nothing worse then someone who  puts their 2 cents into the reading rather than just telling you what they pick up.

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Gish...not sure on that one! Maybe just do a quick 2 minute reading. I have found reviews to be a bit over the board especially on the big hitters:  CP, Asknow, PS , Keen, and other smaller sites..really no help in knowing with they are judgmental... good question for reals..

Psyche1111:
Aside from recommendations, it's hard to know. If the reader is being judgy then just hang up on them. They should tell you what they are feeling or seeing. I don't have a problem with one giving me advice as well but this advice shouldn't be judgmental and should help you. 

HornetKick:

--- Quote from: Psyche1111 on July 02, 2020, 02:50:09 PM ---Aside from recommendations, it's hard to know. If the reader is being judgy then just hang up on them. They should tell you what they are feeling or seeing. I don't have a problem with one giving me advice as well but this advice shouldn't be judgmental and should help you.

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Agreed.
But no one can weed out biases because everyone has them. Although the heavy hitters are sighing at some of the repetitive questions they get and give advice sometimes over psychic content, they do have a gentler approach to being able to tell the caller how the SO is not a match whereas Leanne just hates how women always ask about their love life. Recommendations are the best though. Sometimes a reader will mention they are not judgy in their profiles from mainly those who support the LGBQT communities.

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