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Has your POI Come back while you were actively waiting?

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maggs30:

--- Quote from: Natashanyc on May 07, 2020, 02:52:22 AM ---I agree with theawakened1 and I also have a question to whomever wants to answer from this thread ...

What would you do in the event you were “waiting” and a new person found interest in you and shows better qualities than the poi you are waiting on ? Do you dismiss the opportunity because you are focused on who u believe you are in love with or do you take a leap of faith and explore someone new? What if the new opportunity was a better kind of man/woman for you ?

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This right here is what scared me. New guy and I are about 2 months in. Do I love the ex? Absolutely. What the hell would I do if the ex came back. Do I forgive him for all the shit he put me through? New guy treats me so much better. He was at my house yesterday and got all caught up in his feels telling me if I ever planned on dumping him to do it now. I'm like wtf are you talking about. I swear he told me all of his issues to be sure I wasn't go to run from anything. It feels good to have someone care enough to literally freak themselves out thinking you are going to leave them. Well that sounds bad but you know what I mean lol.

aries1995:

--- Quote from: Realrealwater on May 07, 2020, 01:01:20 AM ---
--- Quote from: aries1995 on May 07, 2020, 12:46:06 AM ---With an ex I was actively waiting and got contact but I was living my own life. I wasn't getting readings and I didn't stop myself talking to other guys. He used to come and go a lot so I learned its best to keep busy. So even if he didn't contact me I was in a good place. Whereas with my ex now I've put my life on hold waiting for him and nothing.

I agree with the above that if someone is destined for you they come back and that maybe they can sense you're no longer enquiring so they contact you.

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Can I ask how long you have been waiting?
I dunno I feel stuck cos I’ve been living my life then I’ll have these shifts where for a week or a month I will feel as if it happened yesterday& just be all types of messed up. It’s getting exhausting & I’m so tired. I want to get off this ride. I’ve never felt so powerless in my life.

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I think between 6-8 months for that particular ex. 4 months for my POI. Don’t worry that’s what I’m going through with my POI at the moment. I’ll be fine for weeks then suddenly he’s all I think about. But I have to say each time I suddenly think about him the duration is shorter and shorter. Hope you’re doing ok! :)

Seeker23:
Nope. Plenty predicted he would be back, etc. But nothing happen.

I am furthest thing from that man’s mind.

Psyche1111:

--- Quote from: Ninacy on May 07, 2020, 12:32:11 AM ---
--- Quote from: Realrealwater on May 06, 2020, 09:32:22 PM ---I see a lot of stories about letting go and them coming back but of course we are on a psychic review site and most of us have pending predictions and are still invested in seeing a certain outcome.
So I wanted to know of those who weren't just happy and almost over their poi when they reached out. ...I guess, I’m asking those who heard from their POI whilst actively waiting (even if you had given up the readings etc)
I’m interested cos it’s making me feel like I’m blocking something for still holding on however I’ve seen many a story on here of those who still were in love and holding out and their predictions come into fruition.
Especially those who had not been in contact for a long enough to doubt ...

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I personally don't believe that waiting for something will actually block it from happening. I had an ex contact me out of the blue after  a year and half of waiting for him, but the second ex who I spend a small fortune on psychic readings about, never came back and it's been 5 years in total ever since we broke up. I gave up asking about him in around three years after so many failed contact predictions. It's been two years that I gave up waiting for him and still, nada, no contact whatsoever, and chances are he is in his second or third relationship after me and will never contact me again-I mean if he hasn't contacted me for 5 fricking years, how is he going to contact me now?

Bottom line, if someone is destined to come back to your life, they will, sooner or later, waiting or non-waiting. If your POI is an empath and sensitive to energies, they might sense that you are waiting for them and back off--which is why some members report getting phone calls from their exes only after they gave up asking and caring about them.

However, from my experience, especially when it comes to males and young people especially, most are spiritual insensitive and can't feel any deeper spiritual bonds like we do, they either like you or not, plain and simple. If they are wishy-washy and unsure, they will just keep you as an option, booty call, whatever, in case things turn sour with the other person. And if they do come back, like so many psychics predicted, in most cases, it's not for a good reason with a fairytale ending. It happens but it's not the norm.

So don't beat yourself for waiting, if that person is destined to come back they will, no matter what you do or feel.

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I completely agree that it won't mess things up if it's what is meant to be. Also, yes your age and phase of your life can make a difference in this. I find now that I am a little older, relationships are more about seeing the big picture and recognizing when someone wants to go on the same path as you in life. I know there's a debate about soulmates and destiny but now I realize I couldn't have met "my person" before now because I had too much I wanted to do. I wanted to travel and live in different counties and have an exciting career.
The whole letting go I think does have some merit to it though. Sometimes we try too hard and that can create negative energy. I've heard it time and time again that as soon as they stopped thinking about their person for 5 minutes, they hear from them. My mom was into my dad and chased him for two years. She finally stopped thinking about him and then they buy a chance ran into each other and they have been married now almost 40 years. What I do see that doesn't work is when someone dates other people or plays games just to get the person. If you generally want to date someone else because you want to go out and meet new people that is fine. If you miss a text message for a few hours because you were busy doing your own thing that is fine too. Just don't do it because you want to play a game and hope that works. It's a lot about the energy we put out there. I also agree with Ninacy that if someone is met to come back into our lives they will. You have to have faith, trust, and not worry.     

massine:
Okay so I have 5 exes.
Ex 1. We were both 14, enough said.
Ex Number 2 - 2011-2016 (4 and a half year on/off relationship)
Ex Number 3 2013 (2 months lol)
Ex Number 4 - 2016 - 2018
Ex Number 5 - 2018-2020.

Exes 2, 3 and 4 have come back asking for second chances in 2019-2020, I said no to them. Ex Number 5 is still my POI.
Exes come and go but honestly it's so funny looking back especially at 4 because we had a real chance of getting married and building a life until he messed up, and now I really can't imagine him in my life, romantically. Its weird looking at him now as I have no love or attraction for him but he is a friend.

Regardless, if 5 comes back I'll be delighted. If he doesn't, life goes on and I'll find someone else. In the meantime I'm casually dating and enjoying life. Don't wait around for them, this doesn't mean you have to give up, it just means YOU AREN'T PUTTING YOUR LIFE ON HOLD FOR SOMEONE WHO MAY NEVER BE BACK!

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