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Final Outcome Updates
beachgal214:
Oh im sorry I didnt see that part of your post, if I had I would not have asked. Wasnt my intention to trigger you.
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--- Quote from: beachgal214 on April 30, 2020, 03:42:28 PM ---I am sorry you went through this. It really hurts!!
How did you come to get your final outcome? did POI tell you or how do you know its final outcome at this moment?
Again sorry you are hurting.
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By you asking these specific questions, you are making me more depressed. I specifically asked for no questions which is why I listed in detail everyone that was wrong. Please respect my wishes. I didn’t even have to post this thread in the first place I’m just being helpful.
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Dreamescape23 - P:
Thank you. I appreciate your sensitivity. I know I’m going to be alone and I’m actually trying to accept it. I’m actually looking into doing a sperm donor to have a child by myself. I hear what your saying but not being too old to find someone and I appreciate it, but I don’t want to ever ever find anyone. I’ll be ok being a single mom. Thanks for trying to understand my situation. I’m not talking anymore on this thread. Thank you!
Fairydust123:
--- Quote from: pRoFeSsOr777 on May 01, 2020, 05:18:35 AM ---My reply here isnt for Dreamescape23 since he/she wants nothing further to do with this thread. This is for other users who may be going through something similar. I will start by sharing something Micah once told me: “Sometimes in life, the hardest circumstances come to the strongest souls.” I have had tremendous pain in my life from abuse as a child to bullying in high school and even college. You may grow and learn to heal. But those experiences never really leave you and for the rest of your life it causes you to view every experience through lenses different from those most others see through! Im in my late 30s. And in my whole life, I have never ever had anyone tell me they are in love with me. There has never been anyone who has loved and desired me the way I love and desire them. Im always chasing and being rejected. There has been one that I have loved the most and right now there has been no communication in almost 2 yrs. Several times this person has told me that it makes them sad that they cant be the person I need them to be. There is no greater pain than that. Several psychics have said reconnection will happen. Yona has said it may take another 18 months to 2 yrs. She couldnt have mixed up energies because this has been my one true love. And judging by her thread, her being totally wrong is definitely a real and true possibility! So at nearly 40, I come home each day to a lonely house with no shoulder to cry on, finding it difficult to trust others because of the pain of my past and the continued rejection, as if the universe is playing a cruel joke on me. For me the trick is to find a way to make it to tomorrow. Sometimes I try to make it hour by hour, sometimes minute to minute. Sometimes I feel ok and sometimes the sorrow gets overwhelming. But the trick is to keep it simple. Just find a way to make it to tomorrow. Find a way to believe that it cant always be bad. Find a way to believe that the universe will at some point cut you some slack. It is hard, but things do get better!! I recall just a few months ago I was almost out of money and feeling tremendous despair. In the nick of time on December 28, I won 5 of 6 lottery numbers. That gave me almost $6,000 and saved me for a few more months. (None of the psychics predicted me winning a pile of money, so take all readings with a grain of salt. Especially if they see only negatives, just know that they can be wrong!) Again, I felt like the universe was being mean to me because if I had gotten that last number I would have won 2.2 million dollars. But then I have to remind myself to be grateful. I had nothing, and I was granted this favor. Just the day before I won, I was in so much despair, the kind of sadness where no counseling, no nothing makes you feel better. But I didnt know a miracle awaited me the next day. Things stayed the same for so long, I couldnt have expected any positive change. But a blessing did come. The trick is to just find a way to make it to tomorrow. We never know which of the tomorrows has a blessing waiting for us. Just find a way to survive. Find a way to endure til tomorrow comes!! And also, learning to accept the cards ur dealt in this life and learning to be content and grateful, makes the journey at least a little bit more manageable. Just find a way to make it to tomorrow! This too shall pass 🤗
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PROFFESOR, you and i haven't seen eye to eye on stuff on this forum, but that was beautifully said. I'm sorry you've also been through such a hard time growing up. I can really relate to your story.
serenejoy:
--- Quote from: Dreamescape23 on May 01, 2020, 01:00:27 AM ---Thank you for your sensitivity. Unfortunately I’ve had more than the three loves and I’m 40 almost so past my prime and too old now for children.
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I’m just reading this but I wanted to share something with you...
My My cousin(Male) was married to his long-term girlfriend of 10yrs and they ended up divorcing. he was 36 when the divorce was final. they had tried for kids but it never happened for them. about a year later he reconnected with an old friend from high school (she had been a senior when he was a freshman so they did not really know each other that well, it was more that they knew of each other). ANYWAY- this girl had been divorced from her one and only husband and one and only boyfriend for a few years, also no kids (she was 39). They began to date and it was such a beautiful and healthy relationship. They got married within half a year and about one year after that she got pregnant. She gave birth to a beautiful baby girl towards the end of her 40th birthday (almost 41). Both are doing 100% fine. The reason I’m sharing this with you is because I feel like meeting the love of your life, having a good relationship, or even bring a child into the world can happen at the most unexpected times. You’re not old.. Without getting too personal, where I work I am often having to check peoples IDs and A lot of times I come across 46-year-old women with two-year-old kids. Have faith my love
Fidget1028:
--- Quote from: serenejoy on June 28, 2020, 03:16:22 PM ---
--- Quote from: Dreamescape23 on May 01, 2020, 01:00:27 AM ---Thank you for your sensitivity. Unfortunately I’ve had more than the three loves and I’m 40 almost so past my prime and too old now for children.
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I’m just reading this but I wanted to share something with you...
My My cousin(Male) was married to his long-term girlfriend of 10yrs and they ended up divorcing. he was 36 when the divorce was final. they had tried for kids but it never happened for them. about a year later he reconnected with an old friend from high school (she had been a senior when he was a freshman so they did not really know each other that well, it was more that they knew of each other). ANYWAY- this girl had been divorced from her one and only husband and one and only boyfriend for a few years, also no kids (she was 39). They began to date and it was such a beautiful and healthy relationship. They got married within half a year and about one year after that she got pregnant. She gave birth to a beautiful baby girl towards the end of her 40th birthday (almost 41). Both are doing 100% fine. The reason I’m sharing this with you is because I feel like meeting the love of your life, having a good relationship, or even bring a child into the world can happen at the most unexpected times. You’re not old.. Without getting too personal, where I work I am often having to check peoples IDs and A lot of times I come across 46-year-old women with two-year-old kids. Have faith my love
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I had my last child at 42. No age related complications. 👍
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