I havnt read this whole thing because it’s a lot but I stopped at your list. I read with all those mentioned when me and my ex were separating and none of them were correct about cheating seeing his side girl nor a baby he had coming as a result of cheating and that’s big sht. All of that info I found out later on my own. I actually have a thread here with my list. I say that to say u are looking in the wrong places for answers. Trust your own intuition as you as well because we always KNOW and seek reassurance from madam fufu or whoever it is online. I wish u success and definitely peace because I don’t wish how I once felt on anyone ❤️