Intuition/Fear vs Readers?

[snowbell]

Has anyone been in a situation where all the readers said the same thing but your intuition said something else? I should use the word fear in my case instead of intuition actually.

So I have been seeing him online on a messaging app a lot and my fears automatical ly are telling me that maybe he's talking to a woman. We are not in a relationshi p so I can't question him. I have consulted a few readers and no woman ever comes up. Pretty much all of them say it's out of boredom and has to do something with finances. However, I see him online during office hours or late at night also.

I met him a week ago and he actually made an effort to have a conversatio n with me and was warmer than he has been in the past. I want to believe what the readers are telling me, that he will come around but my fears are telling me something else.

[Arigirl]

Has anyone been in a situation where all the readers said the same thing but your intuition said something else? I should use the word fear in my case instead of intuition actually.

So I have been seeing him online on a messaging app a lot and my fears automatical ly are telling me that maybe he's talking to a woman. We are not in a relationshi p so I can't question him. I have consulted a few readers and no woman ever comes up. Pretty much all of them say it's out of boredom and has to do something with finances. However, I see him online during office hours or late at night also.

I met him a week ago and he actually made an effort to have a conversatio n with me and was warmer than he has been in the past. I want to believe what the readers are telling me, that he will come around but my fears are telling me something else.

Ask him, does he know thar you use the same messaging app and can see his status online?

[snowbell]

I can't ask him directly. We are not dating and aren't even really friends.

[Arigirl]

If your intuition is telling you something, it's best to follow that than what a reader might say. You know the situation better than anyone. Hope this helps!

[snowbell]

Thanks. My intuition is clouded by my fears, which is why I asked if anyone has been in a similar boat where the what all the readers said came out to be true.

[snowbell]

We aren't really friends so we don't communicate on the phone or text. He is someone from my past. I don't know if he likes me for sure because he hasn't said so. I've had my intuition lie to me in the past when I have been anxious, which is why I am not trusting it. But the business chat piece is not sitting right with me. The messaging app does have a lot of groups, professiona l groups also....unl ess this is what they are catching... .if he is on there chatting relating to his profession, which could mean business or related to work. What was weird is that all three readers I consulted said finances and related to work.

[snowbell]

I'll PM message you :-)

[pfizer]

if you are interested in him but he is not making any move romanticall y; then no need to think if he has a gf or not; coz he is not making a move
if he is making a move then ask him

i wont go to a reader to ask something which i can find it out myself.

[Calleronhiatus]

Has anyone been in a situation where all the readers said the same thing but your intuition said something else? I should use the word fear in my case instead of intuition actually.

So I have been seeing him online on a messaging app a lot and my fears automatical ly are telling me that maybe he's talking to a woman. We are not in a relationshi p so I can't question him. I have consulted a few readers and no woman ever comes up. Pretty much all of them say it's out of boredom and has to do something with finances. However, I see him online during office hours or late at night also.

I met him a week ago and he actually made an effort to have a conversatio n with me and was warmer than he has been in the past. I want to believe what the readers are telling me, that he will come around but my fears are telling me something else.

I understand that feeling well. Fear is really easy to give into. Trust your instincts but keep an optimistic heart.

[snowbell]

Has anyone been in a situation where all the readers said the same thing but your intuition said something else? I should use the word fear in my case instead of intuition actually.

So I have been seeing him online on a messaging app a lot and my fears automatical ly are telling me that maybe he's talking to a woman. We are not in a relationshi p so I can't question him. I have consulted a few readers and no woman ever comes up. Pretty much all of them say it's out of boredom and has to do something with finances. However, I see him online during office hours or late at night also.

I met him a week ago and he actually made an effort to have a conversatio n with me and was warmer than he has been in the past. I want to believe what the readers are telling me, that he will come around but my fears are telling me something else.

I understand that feeling well. Fear is really easy to give into. Trust your instincts but keep an optimistic heart.

I love this phrase, "Trust your instincts but keep an optimistic heart." Thank you!

[Sabrina]

Intuition or fear, what I came to realize is that when someone is interested in you, they will make effor to interact with you. If they aren't, then they are not interested. It's simple as that.

[Girly1998]

Intuition or fear, what I came to realize is that when someone is interested in you, they will make effor to interact with you. If they aren't, then they are not interested. It's simple as that.

Digging an old post from the grave but this isn’t really something that I agree with. I for one am a person that won’t really reach out to someone no matter how much I want to if my mind is giving me reason not to - which a lot of the times I’ve found out was just fear.

Honestly had I been able to distinguish between fear and intuition I could’ve saved myself a ton of heartbreak. I’ve suffered in silence for months over certain people only to have them reach out at a later time and confirm positive things that I was trying to block out.

[PsyGurl]

Has anyone been in a situation where all the readers said the same thing but your intuition said something else? I should use the word fear in my case instead of intuition actually.

Hi, snowbell. Yes, this has happened to me...Ive gotten a “feeling” if guys I’ve been with in the past were being unfaithful. ..looking back, there were signs. I called countless psychics, most of whom reassured me there’s no one else, he’s busy with work/family/worried about finances... and if they did see a woman around, it was always about to end and he would stay with me. Eventually I would find out, mostly through social media, that he was being unfaithful. So go with your intuition! It’s free, and most likely more accurate than a psychic.

[Smiley1]

A few times I’ve known something negative was going to happen and rang a reader who said nope everything ok. Your such and such is going to happen.

Then if happened as I thought.  The negative.

Also I rang loads of readers.  For years and all gave me the sing song happy reading with the fairytale.

Then only two have me negative.   I said those two weren’t psychic at all and trashed them.

They were those that were right for me.

We need to be careful of readers all giving us roses and love.  We get gaslit into believing them. 

[Psyche1111]

Hi! I'm totally new here but I have read with an embarrassin g amount of psychics this year.
I do think reading with too many psychics clouds our intuition. Both because they can give us good and bad readings and that can make you not trust your gut. False-negative readings can just as harmful as the rainbows and sunshine ones. I also do believe there is something to the law of attraction and if I think positive I receive that and if I have negative thoughts I also receive that.

I'm not trying to give you any false hope here but I also have to say from experience it isn't true just because someone isn't being forward with you they actually don't want the same thing you do. I've also been in the situation when I was into someone and they weren't giving me the time of day and a year later things change and we ended up dating. The truth is you don't always know what is going on in that person's life. Keep in mind our ego is there to protect us from getting hurt and this often clouds our intuition. Fear comes more from our ego and insecurity and has nothing to do with intuition. Learning to separate ego and intuition takes time but it can be done. This isn't anything mystical, its psych 101. I'm not a psychologis t but I was raised by two of them!

I've been trying to practice not reading with psychics and trust my intuition. Whenever I feel tempted I look on here and realize how many mixed reviews they all have. Some advice, if you are interested in someone just call them and ask them out yourself. Worst they can say is no. If they are rude to you about it then you know you did yourself a favor because you wouldn't want to be with someone like that. A decent human would be flattered someone has a crush on them. I have found my fear is usually worse than the answer. Many times the answer has end up in the affirmative for me. Even if it doesn't turn into a long term romantic relationshi p it could turn into a nice friendship and that friend can set you up with other friends. I do believe there are some wonderfully gifted psychics out there but I also believe if we take a moment to quiet our minds we can find answers ourselves.