Yup, it’s phantom dude. That’s what I call him. He was supposed to come serenading into my life during “Libra season” at the latest. Whenever a reader tells me that someone so much better than my POI is coming into my life, someone who is ready for commitment, and is well established and wants to pursue me hard, I know they aren’t tapping into shit. I don’t want to be in a serious relationship with anyone. I don’t want the responsibility or the time commitment that comes with that. When someone pursues me, I want to run the other way. It freaks me out. Over the summer I entertained some of these predictions about phantom dude (because damn, he’s quite the catch!) But months later I see that it was all absolute bullshit. Spinning a fairytale. Keep on spinning that shit far away from me.