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Yaz88:
--- Quote from: Still tired on January 15, 2020, 11:06:12 PM ---The advice here is really good and I agree. Definitely close any platform accounts as soon as you are able to do so. I believe it keeps their energetic hooks in you and affects you telepathically to keep calling. As long as I had an account open on Keen it was like I felt magnetically drawn to call them and it brought bad energy into my home and surroundings. When I finally closed it for good all of that cleared away and I didn't feel the pull anymore. Learn to shield your energy from them. A lot of psychics hook into your solar plexus and it can take you off balance.
Prayer helps. That was probably what helped me the most to quit calling. I truly feel and believe I was in a spiritual battle and a dark force was trying to overtake my life. Some psychics are probably not bad people but they are naive and they don't test the spirits. They don't know what they are tapping into. You might get a lot of accurate information from them but when it really matters they turn out to be wrong.
Maybe part of the reason you are doing this is to even the score with your husband for cheating. I don't know but it is worth thinking about. I used to rationalize my calling by saying my ex hurt me so much so I am going to treat myself to this so I can feel better. There are lots of other things I could have done to be nice to myself. The important thing is to replace psychics with something else so you don't just feel a void in your life if you give it up. Find something else that makes you happy or fills up your time or engages your mind so you don't think about it so much.
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Still tired, is there anything you specially noticed after reading with a psychic that was tapping into dark or negative energy? I agree that I don’t think most of them who are in fact getting their information from a trickster source realize it. It is unintentional, yet by reading with them, we give that other spirit (trickster or malevolent) permission to enter our sacred space and affect our spirit and our energy. Other than feeling out of balance, more sick to my stomach, or just my intuition telling me something is off, I’m not sure how else to tell if the reader was accessing one of the base level spirits, one that is not concerned with our highest good and is if a dubious nature.
honeydip:
Is Yona Farrell the reader your speaking of in the post from UK??
I’m currently in recovery too. My readings got so out of control that I didn’t have money to buy my kids Christmas gifts or birthday presents. I felt terrible and exhausted my savings too. The only thing that helps me is going to church and prayer. I don’t know your belief or faith; but I stopped getting readings for three months last year while going to a place of worship consistently. Me and POI weren’t talking and things were very confusing. It was during a time that I would have called psychics a lot. Amazingly I didn’t and let things pay out naturally. Unfortunately, I stopped going to church and the binge started again. I had my most recent binge in December. I spent probably thousands from August to December. I told myself new year and quitting readings but I’ve already had four. This thing is tough to stop. I went to see a therapist last week and told her about my addiction. It helped a little. My advice is see a therapist and if your religious lean towards your faith. I think I may have one more with this Yona reader and that’s it.
Yaz88:
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--- Quote from: Yaz88 on January 15, 2020, 11:41:46 PM ---
--- Quote from: Still tired on January 15, 2020, 11:06:12 PM ---The advice here is really good and I agree. Definitely close any platform accounts as soon as you are able to do so. I believe it keeps their energetic hooks in you and affects you telepathically to keep calling. As long as I had an account open on Keen it was like I felt magnetically drawn to call them and it brought bad energy into my home and surroundings. When I finally closed it for good all of that cleared away and I didn't feel the pull anymore. Learn to shield your energy from them. A lot of psychics hook into your solar plexus and it can take you off balance.
Prayer helps. That was probably what helped me the most to quit calling. I truly feel and believe I was in a spiritual battle and a dark force was trying to overtake my life. Some psychics are probably not bad people but they are naive and they don't test the spirits. They don't know what they are tapping into. You might get a lot of accurate information from them but when it really matters they turn out to be wrong.
Maybe part of the reason you are doing this is to even the score with your husband for cheating. I don't know but it is worth thinking about. I used to rationalize my calling by saying my ex hurt me so much so I am going to treat myself to this so I can feel better. There are lots of other things I could have done to be nice to myself. The important thing is to replace psychics with something else so you don't just feel a void in your life if you give it up. Find something else that makes you happy or fills up your time or engages your mind so you don't think about it so much.
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Still tired, is there anything you specially noticed after reading with a psychic that was tapping into dark or negative energy? I agree that I don’t think most of them who are in fact getting their information from a trickster source realize it. It is unintentional, yet by reading with them, we give that other spirit (trickster or malevolent) permission to enter our sacred space and affect our spirit and our energy. Other than feeling out of balance, more sick to my stomach, or just my intuition telling me something is off, I’m not sure how else to tell if the reader was accessing one of the base level spirits, one that is not concerned with our highest good and is if a dubious nature.
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I would get a feeling like a dark cloud or fog sort of descended around me and filled the space. A strong feeling of being watched (not by the psychic but something else.) Sort of a feeling like when you notice someone with a bad attitude is watching you with a big ugly smirk on their face. I would feel suddenly scared or embarassed even though it didn't fit with how the psychic was treating me. Like they could be really nice but I still felt like there was someone or something projecting a malevolent energy. For a long time I thought that energy was just coming from my ex but as time went on I realized there was something else very distinctly watching me.
I would get really hard hits to my solar plexus, sort of like being punched in the gut or something twisting there. Also sometimes I got pounding third eye headaches.
One of the signs I noticed too was the psychic would start saying things that had a really sinister meaning to me, and they totally didn't realize it, it wasn't intentional. But it felt like someone was playing a nasty joke on me, like an inside joke that only I would understand. Sometimes there was a weird tone in the psychics voice when they said those things. I do believe most of them are truly unaware of what they are tapping in to.
It didn't happen with every psychic, for instance I never felt any of that with Melody Marie which is why I stuck with her for so long. But I did feel like so long as I kept my Keen account open, it kept a portal to all that darkness open in my home.
I also want to emphasize that accuracy or inaccuracy is probably not a good indicator of whether they are connected to something good or bad. The bad spirits like to gain your trust with accuracy and then pull the rug out from under you. I feel like they also try to block the connection with a good psychic so you don't get accurate information.
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Thank you for sharing, still tired. I can relate to much of what you’ve said. It really is no joke and the trickster spirit can make you feel that you are losing your mind and tends to squash your self-worth. The psychic can be incredibly kind, yet in the pit of your stomach you come away feeling like you are stuck in some hole in the dark, very small and very afraid or a paranoid feeling sets in. It’s not good and binging really exposes all of us to spirits that will not provide us with the peace we seek, but they enjoy causing strife and self-loathing. Yeah, although I’m not inclined to get another reading for awhile, it may be a good idea to take an epsom salt bath with sage and lavender tonight.
russianred:
Honestly, I didn't feel the negative vibes closing in on me. The negative feelings I've had have been from knowing how much money I'm spending. If I could afford it, I'd make a couple of calls a day. I can't though.
naturegirl:
--- Quote from: beachgal214 on January 15, 2020, 05:32:00 PM ---Hi!
I am in recovery. I do still go on forum. bc I found talking to and reading others experiences , especially the negative, have helped me.
What helped me the most:
1. Directly addressing the issue I was calling about - for me that meant reaching out to POI for explantation, validation and if needed closure. We remain in contact so not exactly closure but have come to some sort of understanding of where we are in this confusing world.
2. Realizing that the readings I was getting on binges were low quality and I never trusted them enough hence the binge to seek confirmation. finally I realized I felt AWFUL about how much money I spent - and for what? I didnt know if I even believed the info OR WORSE - it was not something I DIDNT ALREADY KNOW.
3. Spacing out my readings. When I decided to quit the platforms, I still booked some higher end "go to" big hitters. - and like many of the none bingers - I sought out "general readings only... this helped tremendously for 2 reasons: 1. I had to WAIT for the readings. so it prepared me for breaking the cycle. By WAITING I was able to break the cycle of "whenever I want I can talk to someone". that accessibility combined with money spent and inaccuracy or not trusting the readings (in truth how can readers who log on 12+ hours a day stay fresh and clear minded??) SO in short WAITING gave me pause to realize I could go without bingeing. and 2. It saved me MONEY!! bc I wasnt spending so much on so baby crappy readings. so spacing them out. - I still was satiating the need to know, but doing it in a more clear and thought out way that made me WAIT between readings.
4. Ultimately realizing there is no new info. that I NEED TO KNOW. that I have my situation. that I can trust myself to raise my vibration to get into alignment with my highest good. trust that things are working out for me and that by relinquishing control the universe can work its magic. That ultimately I know the answers to the why's and the how's and asking more people for input is only convoluting what I already know to b e true. I dont have any interest in calling a reader. at all. I do like to read the stories on here and read about good readers in case in future I would -- but I am hoping to one day not even come on the forum. but for now its like a guily pleasure of sorts and if I can. help someone overcome what I went through id be glad to.
I hope this helps you. it really did work for me. I probably spent thousands since I started in May. I never added it up but I feel l it was a lot. it was easy to blow through 300-500 a week. I really was someone calling 3-4 a day and hating myself after.
getting through to my issues and questions direct from the source helped the most but the biggest was also. spacing the readings out and petering them out slowly so as not to cut myself off cold turkey. I still had some positive and validating readings coming in.
I have not had a reading since my reading with Yona last week nd that was booked in November. I am excited to just things play out.
I wish you luck!!!! I would also probably confront the husband on the issues.
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Great post, beachgal!
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