3. Spacing out my readings. When I decided to quit the platforms, I still booked some higher end "go to" big hitters. - and like many of the none bingers - I sought out "general readings only... this helped tremendously for 2 reasons: 1. I had to WAIT for the readings. so it prepared me for breaking the cycle. By WAITING I was able to break the cycle of "whenever I want I can talk to someone". that accessibility combined with money spent and inaccuracy or not trusting the readings (in truth how can readers who log on 12+ hours a day stay fresh and clear minded??) SO in short WAITING gave me pause to realize I could go without bingeing. and 2. It saved me MONEY!! bc I wasnt spending so much on so baby crappy readings. so spacing them out. - I still was satiating the need to know, but doing it in a more clear and thought out way that made me WAIT between readings.
I totally agree with this. I'm a non-binger who has consulted psychics for decades and had overwhelmingly good experiences. Never went into debt, made multiple calls or any of that. I rarely ever jumped on the flavor-of-the-month, and the few times I did, I was sorry. Nearly all failures have been when I needed to speak with someone right this minute. I believe one good reading is worth 100 bad ones.
One thing I do is keep a list of psychics I may want to try. As time passes, I see how things go with other people and frankly 99% of them get crossed off my list eventually
because the aren't actually psychic. You have to know how to discern if someone is actually psychic. There are also people I've had on there for years and have never called. I just make a note like "consistently gets hits on employment/ job issues" so I have a better idea of who to call if I have a specific topic I need assistance on. Be smart about who, why and when you call. It's a tool to help you navigate and make better choices.
I truly believe that the clearer you are, the better the reading will be. By clear I mean you're in a good place mentally (I meditate twice a day), not desperate, not chasing something unhealthy, toxic or just plain over, being open to answers you may not like and are proactive and realistic about your situation. That means you participate in getting what you desire and you confront your own reality. Nothing is set in stone. You can change your attitude and situation at any time. And the expectations a lot of you have for psychics is totally unrealistic. No one is all seeing and all knowing. They can only tell you what they get. And frankly most of you aren't calling real psychics to begin with.
Blaming psychics and psychic lines for your actions is not taking responsibility for your situation, obsession, anxiety, whatever it is inside you that is encouraging you to make all those self-destructive calls. You need to deal with whatever made you do it, and that's not I did it because it was a bad breakup, he cheated or any of those things. Something made you not want to deal with your life, escape into a fantasy of he still loves me and will be back and give all your power away. He's either coming back or he's not. That is entirely up to him. Hearing about his new squeeze or how he misses you or anything really is not going to help you and it certainly won't change your situation. It's not healthy.
Also, all the toxic encouragement around here about hanging on and there's still hope is not helping. Think about it. They are people with the exact same situation as you and the exact same problem and they are encouraging you to keep hanging on. WTF. It's like an alcoholic telling another AA member his problems and that person tells them to have a couple of drinks to deal with it. They can't tell you maybe it's time you moved on because it would be too close to admitting that their person isn't coming back either.
When I do make a call, I wait and see how things pan out. Could be 1 day, could be 3 years but I wait. I don't keep calling back or start calling other psychics to get their opinion. Nothing is ever 100%, but unless it's a very high accuracy rate for me personally, I won't ever call them again.