That is really great and I am so glad you got that gift!!!
I actually do know what you mean and it really has helped me curb readings. I hope it does the same for you. Kisha helped me there. You can PM me for details as I dont share on the forum publicly however I will say, it helped me curb bc once I realized their "side" or whatever, also with the validation from talking to my POI, I was able to see that there was nothing else I needed to know.
Like I love your review about spirit minded and infinite star - but I am saying to myself- you have this info already. You know the how's, the why's... so I do know how you feel and its a great feeling even if the outcome was not what you wanted.
At least you are empowered with knowledge. And recognize the human-ness in her too. I had to do that as well. Accept POI for who they are, not who I think they should be. Acknowledging his own journey may not be yielding the same "lens" as I, or timing etc.
anyway - I am glad for you and I hope this parlays into a positive for you. best of luck!!