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my story, lesson leard
Tryingtoheal:
@flyingsoul Very true words! i am really trying to love myself more. I am turning this negative in my life into a positive. learning from my mistakes and trying to heal properly this time. Loving myself was always hard but im getting better everyday i do alot of positive affirmations and they have really helped me on this journey! thanks so much for the kinds words
Tryingtoheal:
@Hornetkick lol I was really desperate and binging heavy when i read with littlespacemonkey and i swore at the time i had seen a post here on the forum that she was good but it was deleted. she definitely had a thread here before idk what happened to it. But ive tried all types of psychics with crazy names as long as it wasnt super obvious you were scamming me i probably would read with them because sometimes its the psychics you really least expect that actually are somewhat on point. but your right im definetly getting better at kicking ppl out of my life that bring me stress though and my calls to psychics have went down alot
Tryingtoheal:
@th3awakened1 gtfoh really scarlet changed her name to lisa on psychic source? she was a straight up cunt to me and was wrong on top of that. i really disliked her alot. and you dont know she is so rude on california psychics because they never post real reviews. i really wish these sites would be honest. they really mess with ppls lives deleting the negative reviews.
bee.23:
--- Quote from: Tryingtoheal on March 03, 2020, 11:58:43 AM ---@bee.23Thank so much for the kind words and support! I totally agree with you, ugh i wish i had never called my first psychic but you live and you learn, the binging we do comes from anxiety and needing to be able to somewhat control the situation and i wish we would look inside ourselves for the deeper root of why we feel the need to act like that. If i take anything positive away from this psychic addiction ordeal is the fact that i took a hard look at myself in the mirror and had to admit the the psychics werent the problem they were a manifestation of some insecurities and problems i had that i never really wanted to deal with. i had to learn how to heal properly which is what i am doing now. I am definitely in a better head space and trying to learn how to manifest properly so if you have any tips please share them!!
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Yes - of course, my tips would be primarily meditation. Staying centered in your emotions. Our emotions are the cause of the majority of this because if pure logic were involved a lot of us would not be doing this. Ive struggled in relationships because of my emotions, and what I found that kept me most grounded was just simple meditation. Everyday. Find space and time to yourself, put on a youtube guided tutorial, and just breathe. Know that our surroundings, relationships, everything around us is mostly out of our control. What people do, and what happens. The ONLY thing we can control is ourselves- our choices, reactions, and life. Meditation has trained me to think through my actions before I act out of character, and also helped me to stay calm, in the sense of "flow". What is is, and whats going to be will be. Knowing that other peoples actions are out of our control, and not a reflection of ourselves. If it werent for meditation I would be a slave to my emotions in emotional situations every time. Meditation has taught me to be in control and it is the most empowering feeling. When people say you choose your emotions, its not really true. You choose your reactions, to those emotions. Naturally whatever we feel is inevitable, but how we act on them is what holds the power over our lives. So meditation primarily, and just living life with love. Forgiving, at all costs. Not for them, but for yourself. Meditation has helped me in my obsessive phases of psychic readings, and also in my interpersonal relationships and life...staying in control. Thats my advice.. many hugs, blessings, love, and light :)
kdspirited:
--- Quote from: bee.23 on March 03, 2020, 06:39:39 PM ---
--- Quote from: Tryingtoheal on March 03, 2020, 11:58:43 AM ---@bee.23Thank so much for the kind words and support! I totally agree with you, ugh i wish i had never called my first psychic but you live and you learn, the binging we do comes from anxiety and needing to be able to somewhat control the situation and i wish we would look inside ourselves for the deeper root of why we feel the need to act like that. If i take anything positive away from this psychic addiction ordeal is the fact that i took a hard look at myself in the mirror and had to admit the the psychics werent the problem they were a manifestation of some insecurities and problems i had that i never really wanted to deal with. i had to learn how to heal properly which is what i am doing now. I am definitely in a better head space and trying to learn how to manifest properly so if you have any tips please share them!!
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Yes - of course, my tips would be primarily meditation. Staying centered in your emotions. Our emotions are the cause of the majority of this because if pure logic were involved a lot of us would not be doing this. Ive struggled in relationships because of my emotions, and what I found that kept me most grounded was just simple meditation. Everyday. Find space and time to yourself, put on a youtube guided tutorial, and just breathe. Know that our surroundings, relationships, everything around us is mostly out of our control. What people do, and what happens. The ONLY thing we can control is ourselves- our choices, reactions, and life. Meditation has trained me to think through my actions before I act out of character, and also helped me to stay calm, in the sense of "flow". What is is, and whats going to be will be. Knowing that other peoples actions are out of our control, and not a reflection of ourselves. If it werent for meditation I would be a slave to my emotions in emotional situations every time. Meditation has taught me to be in control and it is the most empowering feeling. When people say you choose your emotions, its not really true. You choose your reactions, to those emotions. Naturally whatever we feel is inevitable, but how we act on them is what holds the power over our lives. So meditation primarily, and just living life with love. Forgiving, at all costs. Not for them, but for yourself. Meditation has helped me in my obsessive phases of psychic readings, and also in my interpersonal relationships and life...staying in control. Thats my advice.. many hugs, blessings, love, and light :)
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bee.23 what kind of meditations do you recommend/do? I do a lot of self love. I am doing a 30 day guided meditation challenge. Can you refer any others
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