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PAnewbie:
Hello,

I am brand spanking new to this site.  It is hard to admit, but I have been calling various psychic lines for about a decade.  And I did it all for this one person who was supposed to be the love of my life!.  He and I had an in and out relationship over the past 11 years.  These psychics always told me he would come back eventually, and they were right.  But they often were off on the timing or the details.  Yet I continued to call them.  And I burned through savings to do this.  I spoke with so many of the top psychics at CP including Gina Rose, Dave, Liam, Abrielle, Uli, Natasha, Taylor, Jacqueline, Devyn, Luciana, Nina,...and the list goes on...

A couple of years ago, he and I finally got engaged.  I never thought we would get there considering the history of our relationship.  Though it was unhealthy, love conquers all they say.  A few months after we got engaged, we moved in together to a home we jointly purchased.  After a year, he moved out.  He and I had complete silence for 4 months.  All the above psychics, and then some, told me he missed me and would want to come back home.  They were all wrong.  He and I just connected after the new year, and he told me he wanted a decision on what we would do with the house.  There was no talk of reconciliation or even his feelings for me.  He just wanted closure and that meant severing the ties with the house.

So of course, I am calling them all again and saying WTF...it was a complete 180 from what actually happened...and of course spending MORE money in the process...they of course will defend what they say and indicate that perhaps timing is off...and that he vacillates so much...and guess what, they all say he will still be back...AFTER ALL THAT!

So I found this site, and I am looking for support to help me through this.  I looked to CP essentially as very, very, very high priced therapy.  I am also seeking therapy to help with the break-up, but as some of you may know, it is different talking with a psychic anytime you want vs talking to a therapist who always asks you what you think and doesn't give predictions.

I am hoping that I will get that support here, and that when I am tempted to reach out to CP, I can just ping someone here to get me through it.  This break-up has made me miserable because I gave so much of my heart, soul, mind, body, time, energy, etc to this man and feel I won't be able to forgive myself for a long time.  And though it is all on me for choosing to call them, CP didn't help much either because now I am in major debt and have to deal with this house issue with the ex.

Thanks for any advice or support!

russianred:
Hi there, I can't promise to always be on or respond to a ping but I am so sorry to hear your message.  I just wanted to say something that I recently posted on another thread -- any relationship in which we are prompted to call psychics is probably one that is not right for us.  I am so sorry that situation with your guy happened.  And it is so scary how psychics can just be WRONG yet we're out thousands of dollars.  If it were an object, we'd be able to return it to the store.

I am also in therapy (for anxiety that started long before my current relationship) and completely understand what you mean about the immediacy of a psychic.  I often want someone to talk to RIGHT NOW.  I am trying to post on these boards right now to distract myself from a psychic binge I've been on for the last 48 hours.

One thing I keep trying to ask myself is - how will I feel after another reading?  Is this reading going to make me feel any better?  I've been on a binge yet can't say that I feel any better, less anxious, or more secure than I did 48 hours ago.  I still feel uncertain about what is going to happen.

A tip I got in another thread was to take notes on each reading and write down how much it cost, then later evaluate how much that information was worth to you.

PAnewbie:
Thanks RussianRed for the tips...hoping you get the peace you need with your situation

russianred:
Thank you.  How have the last few hours been for you?

My intention today is to resist the urge to call and I believe I can do it.  I would love to say I don't want to call for this whole week, but one day at a time.

PAnewbie:
Not great...like you, spent the whole weekend on the phone with them... :(

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