Here are some of my pieces....
when it comes to you , he recently spoke about you to a friend. he spoke to a best buddy type of person. a male around his age. somoeone he trusts very much.
he tells his friend that he is not sure if you would chose him over eveyone else. he likes to be the one and only
I see that he goes through phases , he has ups and down and he sees everything black and white most of the time.
Did he tell you that he had a vision of when he thinks of you what he sees???