@Em
Focus was initially a young lady that I am interested in.
I am not sure I can suggest a better choice for you. I felt like both connected but no major predictions (contact, forward movement, etc) have happened. Like i mentioned in some of my other posts, my psychic journey started just over 2 years ago when my gf at the time walked out of the relationship and i lost my balance. Read with so many on her that said she'd be back, never happened, now I am glad...and wonder if it was all those readers with their accurate reading of her and their negative personal opinions of her and how she was treating me that created a mass intention that pushed her out of my life. As i said, looking back I am over it and her.
Been hoping to get things of the ground with this new young lady and it been over a year. We started on fire for a few days and then she pulled back saying she was afraid. There were a few more false starts and communication and she has given me details of her past (abusive ex, not being treated well by men in general, that she had never been treated like i treated her) and a whole bunch of silences with plans made and broken by her peppered in here and there. I am beginning to wonder...I mean I feel the connection. Just don't know if it is really reciprocal. I see some of the signs that she has interest.
So a question for the ladies...would sheer fear of being hurt again or not being healed from the last guy that hurt you and having a hard time trusting that a man who was treating you right be enough to make you fear actually stepping forward to explore the connection??? I felt like the moment we met almost 7 years ago was a thunderbolt moment.
I have had major predictions pass from other readers but not regarding the ex or my love interest when I have asked about them. Other "girls" I have met along the way my readers have accurately predicted whether I would hear from them or not and read their personalities accurately. Even Pilar about my ex (never read with Uli about ex) was wrong but maybe that is for the better.
As you know some work better than others for certain people. I can only give you my experiences and who they were with and hope you can make your own decision.