She is one of the few people I call on Keen anymore. I call her more for her empath skills and work related questions.
I did ask her about a guy I worked with who asked me to dinner. I ended up going out with him as she suggested it would be fun and that the guy thought I was funny. It ended up being a work related dinner and felt awkward. Anyway, I finally figured out why it was so awkward because the guy told me he was gay. So, SJ did not pick up on this fact, but neither did any other reader.
I will continue to call SJ because she seems very intelligent to me, gifted, and kind.