I’m really really upset

[Loulou]

I don’t know many that wouldn’t feel disturbed to receive that from a stranger.  I’m done with this.  You don’t have any logic and I’m arguing with someone that only sees one side of things.

I was in general terms

Whatever.  If you think that message on to total stranger up to you
This place is disturbed

I will say star 7 messages saying you’re trouble seem to put my mind at ease.  I feel better now it’s not just me you hate.

Enjoy your night

We could have spoken about it like adults in private like I tried to do and you didn't want to, so we had to speak about it here.

[Star_01]

I don’t know many that wouldn’t feel disturbed to receive that from a stranger.  I’m done with this.  You don’t have any logic and I’m arguing with someone that only sees one side of things.

I was in general terms

Whatever.  If you think that message on to total stranger up to you
This place is disturbed

I will say star 7 messages saying you’re trouble seem to put my mind at ease.  I feel better now it’s not just me you hate.

Enjoy your night

We could have spoken about it like adults in private like I tried to do and you didn't want to, so we had to speak about it here.

It's only disturbing to those who are not innocent.

[Star_01]

I was in general terms

Whatever.  If you think that message on to total stranger up to you
This place is disturbed

I will say star 7 messages saying you’re trouble seem to put my mind at ease.  I feel better now it’s not just me you hate.

Enjoy your night

We could have spoken about it like adults in private like I tried to do and you didn't want to, so we had to speak about it here.

I agree with you Star. Loulou posting your private message to her on here just puts a bad taste in my mouth. I wouldn't feel comfortable someone doing that to me. not like i'm sending my personal secrets in a message, but still, it was sent as a private message for a reason...

Thanks. I don't mind the message I sent being posted publically as I did no wrong personally and I thought I could clear things up with the user themselves, well, hoping to.

[Loulou]

Admin please delete my account.  I don’t want to be here anymore

This is the star show obviously any many of you allow her to do it

Enjoy the nanny state

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I was in general terms

Whatever.  If you think that message on to total stranger up to you
This place is disturbed

I will say star 7 messages saying you’re trouble seem to put my mind at ease.  I feel better now it’s not just me you hate.

Enjoy your night

We could have spoken about it like adults in private like I tried to do and you didn't want to, so we had to speak about it here.

I agree with you Star. Loulou posting your private message to her on here just puts a bad taste in my mouth. I wouldn't feel comfortable someone doing that to me. not like i'm sending my personal secrets in a message, but still, it was sent as a private message for a reason...

[Star_01]

Forum wars are usually a waste of time and energy. It serves no higher purpose, fomenting only frustration and animosity, and almost always ends in a stalemate.

To be fair, Star did express her original concern/query in a private message, so I'm not really sure why loulou felt the need to start a public thread, which lit this dumpster fire in a sh*t storm. Not taking sides, but if I received a PM that irritated me, I would just delete it and move on with my day.

Honestly, I think you both are valuable contributors to this forum, and I've read reviews/opinions/thoughts/suggestions from each of you that have been helpful, so I hope that we can quash this dispute, and perhaps just agree to disagree on a particular issue or reader.

Thank you, I appreciate it and agree.

[Loulou]

I don’t have a problem with that.  I just felt disturbed from such a message from someone I don’t know.

Please let’s move on

Forum wars are usually a waste of time and energy. It serves no higher purpose, fomenting only frustration and animosity, and almost always ends in a stalemate.

To be fair, Star did express her original concern/query in a private message, so I'm not really sure why loulou felt the need to start a public thread, which lit this dumpster fire in a sh*t storm. Not taking sides, but if I received a PM that irritated me, I would just delete it and move on with my day.

Honestly, I think you both are valuable contributors to this forum, and I've read reviews/opinions/thoughts/suggestions from each of you that have been helpful, so I hope that we can quash this dispute, and perhaps just agree to disagree on a particular issue or reader.

[Yaz88]

That one post triggered all this.  Omg wtf I’m really baffled and disturbed by your behaviour Star

Hey Loulou, was your post that caused all of this in response to my post?  If so Star can PM me and leave you alone. 

[Star_01]

That one post triggered all this.  Omg wtf I’m really baffled and disturbed by your behaviour Star

Hey Loulou, was your post that caused all of this in response to my post?  If so Star can PM me and leave you alone.

No, it wasn't. I came on to defend myself against LouLou and others, and said exactly what you said in one of your last postings about readers not being our friends. So please, leave me alone. Perhaps actually read the thread yourself before jumping on.

[Loulou]

That one post triggered all this.  Omg wtf I’m really baffled and disturbed by your behaviour Star

Hey Loulou, was your post that caused all of this in response to my post?  If so Star can PM me and leave you alone.

Honestly I’ve no idea what it’s in response to.

I’m just sorry I said anything.

[Yaz88]

That one post triggered all this.  Omg wtf I’m really baffled and disturbed by your behaviour Star

Hey Loulou, was your post that caused all of this in response to my post?  If so Star can PM me and leave you alone.

No, it wasn't. I came on to defend myself against LouLou and others, and said exactly what you said in one of your last postings about readers not being our friends. So please, leave me alone. Perhaps actually read the thread yourself before jumping on.

It’s just seriously annoying that new members are constantly targeted on this forum.  Star, I really don’t know what you hoped to gain by sending an accusatory PM to Loulou.  Can’t we go back to reviewing readers and stop the witch hunt?  And no, I’m not going to read the entire thread because it’s the same old shit that was on the Matilda thread a month or so back. 

[Star_01]

That one post triggered all this.  Omg wtf I’m really baffled and disturbed by your behaviour Star

Hey Loulou, was your post that caused all of this in response to my post?  If so Star can PM me and leave you alone.

No, it wasn't. I came on to defend myself against LouLou and others, and said exactly what you said in one of your last postings about readers not being our friends. So please, leave me alone. Perhaps actually read the thread yourself before jumping on.

It’s just seriously annoying that new members are constantly targeted on this forum.  Star, I really don’t know what you hoped to gain by sending an accusatory PM to Loulou.  Can’t we go back to reviewing readers and stop the witch hunt?  And no, I’m not going to read the entire thread because it’s the same old shit that was on the Matilda thread a month or so back.

Yazz88:

"I think it’s really important to remember that a reader isn’t your friend.  Folks, this is a business relationship.  You are paying for a service that they are rendering.  This doesn’t give you an excuse to be rude to them or demanding, but to treat them with the respect you’d give anyone else providing a service you paid for.  I really hated my reading with Karenjo.  But to say she’s wrong wouldn’t be truthful.  She may very well be correct.  Yes, one of the readers I like was the topic of sketchy behavior.  Do I know for sure that the allegations are false?  No, I don’t know.  The thing is that I don’t care.  For me, she provides a valuable service.  The minute her service stops being valuable to me, based on my definition of what valuable means, is when I’ll stop reading with her.  It’s important to try and provide reviews in an objective manner, which I know is hard considering that the subject matter is emotionally charged.  Just remember, the relationship each of us"

I literally said the same as you and people came on and attacked that. This is none of your business and was cleared up, then you came on -so don't come on have a go at me then preach the "let's stop this" shit. It was nothing to do with you. It has been discussed and me and the person were leaving it be. You are okay to have your say and I can have mine and others theirs.

[jas]

Good God almighty - Loulou made a very general statement about "people" (no one in particular) being dodgy and Star you became personally offended by that?  You did the same to me one time.  I made a general statement and you pm'd me thinking I meant you, which I did not.  You seem to take all of this far, far too personal.  You and Tired seem to have a lot of conspiracy theories.  LIghten up.

And.....would someone please tell me what Australia or having an Australian IP address has to do with anything???

[Star_01]

Good God almighty - Loulou made a very general statement about "people" (no one in particular) being dodgy and Star you became personally offended by that?  You did the same to me one time.  I made a general statement and you pm'd me thinking I meant you, which I did not.  You seem to take all of this far, far too personal.  You and Tired seem to have a lot of conspiracy theories.  LIghten up.

And.....would someone please tell me what Australia or having an Australian IP address has to do with anything???

Good for you if you want to have rose tinted glasses believing these shills, but leave me to post what I wish please.  You also told me yourself this-


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Hi Star,

I can't believe someone accused you of getting paid to be on here.  I think you have a lot to say so perhaps people mistake that as someone who is being paid to be on a site.  You convey your thoughts and feelings well, perhaps better than most, therefore it can put some people off a bit.  Don't change who you are, and please continue to add your thought and feelings here on this site and in your private life.  You are not someone who should ever "bottle it up".

I apologize if I missed you last year.  I had a few people who wanted a tarot reading and I thought I got back with everyone.

Thank you for filling me in on what is happening.  I am trying to catch up on the Matilda thread right now so I can figure it out.

So as you said - i should be allowed to post freely on here.

[Yaz88]

That one post triggered all this.  Omg wtf I’m really baffled and disturbed by your behaviour Star

Hey Loulou, was your post that caused all of this in response to my post?  If so Star can PM me and leave you alone.

No, it wasn't. I came on to defend myself against LouLou and others, and said exactly what you said in one of your last postings about readers not being our friends. So please, leave me alone. Perhaps actually read the thread yourself before jumping on.

It’s just seriously annoying that new members are constantly targeted on this forum.  Star, I really don’t know what you hoped to gain by sending an accusatory PM to Loulou.  Can’t we go back to reviewing readers and stop the witch hunt?  And no, I’m not going to read the entire thread because it’s the same old shit that was on the Matilda thread a month or so back.

Yazz88:

"I think it’s really important to remember that a reader isn’t your friend.  Folks, this is a business relationship.  You are paying for a service that they are rendering.  This doesn’t give you an excuse to be rude to them or demanding, but to treat them with the respect you’d give anyone else providing a service you paid for.  I really hated my reading with Karenjo.  But to say she’s wrong wouldn’t be truthful.  She may very well be correct.  Yes, one of the readers I like was the topic of sketchy behavior.  Do I know for sure that the allegations are false?  No, I don’t know.  The thing is that I don’t care.  For me, she provides a valuable service.  The minute her service stops being valuable to me, based on my definition of what valuable means, is when I’ll stop reading with her.  It’s important to try and provide reviews in an objective manner, which I know is hard considering that the subject matter is emotionally charged.  Just remember, the relationship each of us"

I literally said the same as you and people came on and attacked that. This is none of your business and was cleared up, then you came on -so don't come on have a go at me then preach the "let's stop this" shit. It was nothing to do with you. It has been discussed and me and the person were leaving it be. You are okay to have your say and I can have mine and others theirs.

I guess I’m slightly overprotective of new new members because I know how it feels to not be able to talk about this stuff with friends and family and this forum can provide much needed support to those who are struggling.  I’m sure you can understand this perspective, Star. 

[Star_01]

That one post triggered all this.  Omg wtf I’m really baffled and disturbed by your behaviour Star

Hey Loulou, was your post that caused all of this in response to my post?  If so Star can PM me and leave you alone.

No, it wasn't. I came on to defend myself against LouLou and others, and said exactly what you said in one of your last postings about readers not being our friends. So please, leave me alone. Perhaps actually read the thread yourself before jumping on.

It’s just seriously annoying that new members are constantly targeted on this forum.  Star, I really don’t know what you hoped to gain by sending an accusatory PM to Loulou.  Can’t we go back to reviewing readers and stop the witch hunt?  And no, I’m not going to read the entire thread because it’s the same old shit that was on the Matilda thread a month or so back.

Yazz88:

"I think it’s really important to remember that a reader isn’t your friend.  Folks, this is a business relationship.  You are paying for a service that they are rendering.  This doesn’t give you an excuse to be rude to them or demanding, but to treat them with the respect you’d give anyone else providing a service you paid for.  I really hated my reading with Karenjo.  But to say she’s wrong wouldn’t be truthful.  She may very well be correct.  Yes, one of the readers I like was the topic of sketchy behavior.  Do I know for sure that the allegations are false?  No, I don’t know.  The thing is that I don’t care.  For me, she provides a valuable service.  The minute her service stops being valuable to me, based on my definition of what valuable means, is when I’ll stop reading with her.  It’s important to try and provide reviews in an objective manner, which I know is hard considering that the subject matter is emotionally charged.  Just remember, the relationship each of us"

I literally said the same as you and people came on and attacked that. This is none of your business and was cleared up, then you came on -so don't come on have a go at me then preach the "let's stop this" shit. It was nothing to do with you. It has been discussed and me and the person were leaving it be. You are okay to have your say and I can have mine and others theirs.

I guess I’m slightly overprotective of new new members because I know how it feels to not be able to talk about this stuff with friends and family and this forum can provide much needed support to those who are struggling.  I’m sure you can understand this perspective, Star.

Yeah, I too once was supposed to be Matilda. And all I said, Yazz88 is that people should be allowed to post good and not so good things on any readers.