@caroline10 I've been in your place 10000x. As recent as last evening! I have two trusted advisors too, and I should honestly wait for them if I have questions or looking for more insight. But when she's not on, I feel the need to check someone else's opinion. So I had a call with a different advisor the other night, which I thought was okay, then I read with her again last night because I had one more question, and the conversation kept going and going, this new reader changed her predictions completely overnight! Looking back, she didn't say anything I could validate, and gave only what my poi is "feeling" and predictions. But I guess because I felt comfortable in my second call, and felt down to begin with, I realized I was venting, so she just used what I was saying to make her "predictions" and it went from being super positive one call, to super negative the next, and I felt worse. And I knew I should've just waited!! When you 'know' you shouldn't read with someone new, you're right. I know it's sooo hard, believe me. I'm trying soo so hard to stop reading with new advisors, but I know the itch so bad.
If you're reading with someone new, I know you know, but they could be picking up on things you say that may not seem like a lot of info to you, but could be for them, your tone of voice even.
Anyway, all to say, I would say that if you do have trusted advisors, to try your best to wait for them to come back online and read with them. 9 times out of 10 I regret reading with someone new because the confusion they bring, especially when they ruin your day bringing on anxiety and more questions.
Especially if your trusted two have given you predictions in the past that have happened and are consistent then, then I'd say hold of and wait a bit longer, and follow up with your original readers. STAY STRONG <3
