Calling psychics

[peppie]

One day way you wake up and realize that none of your readers were right. One day you wake up and realize that you spent all this time fixated on one person and that person is gone. Calling psychics about the same person over and over is a way to waste your life. If you need to call a psychic about a guy more than a few times, you probably already know intuitively that it's not going to work out.

There are psychics out there who will try to keep you hooked so you keep calling over and over again. Well years later they've helped you to waste your life and do you think they will care at all they fed you lies? Do you think they will give up a single thought about you? One day you wake up with years past and a life wasted and nobody is going to bother to tell you so on that day when you wake up you have to face the reality and consequences of all that wasted by yourself. And if you fixated on that one person you also wake up all alone.

When i started this journey, I wish someone would have told me. I wish someone would have cared enough to tell me and slap some sense into me. It's possible that I wouldn't have listened. Or it's possible when you are fixated that you haven't yet dealt with pains and wounds from the past.

I would encourage anyone who is calling over and over again and spending a ton of money to realize it's not going to stop it's not going to get better until you make it better and you make it stop. Nobody will do it for you. If they would they would have and they're not.

No one knows your life better than you do. No psychic is 100% What if you make huge decisions on the 20% that is wrong?

Best of luck, folks.

[Star_01]

Amen!

[joyjoy]

Thank you for posting this.  Spot on.

[diamondcanadian]

This !

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[Fidget1028]

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[Girly1998]

Damn

[LetItBe123]

Wish I realized this sooner as well 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[Fidget1028]

One day way you wake up and realize that none of your readers were right. One day you wake up and realize that you spent all this time fixated on one person and that person is gone. Calling psychics about the same person over and over is a way to waste your life. If you need to call a psychic about a guy more than a few times, you probably already know intuitively that it's not going to work out.

There are psychics out there who will try to keep you hooked so you keep calling over and over again. Well years later they've helped you to waste your life and do you think they will care at all they fed you lies? Do you think they will give up a single thought about you? One day you wake up with years past and a life wasted and nobody is going to bother to tell you so on that day when you wake up you have to face the reality and consequences of all that wasted by yourself. And if you fixated on that one person you also wake up all alone.

When i started this journey, I wish someone would have told me. I wish someone would have cared enough to tell me and slap some sense into me. It's possible that I wouldn't have listened. Or it's possible when you are fixated that you haven't yet dealt with pains and wounds from the past.

I would encourage anyone who is calling over and over again and spending a ton of money to realize it's not going to stop it's not going to get better until you make it better and you make it stop. Nobody will do it for you. If they would they would have and they're not.

No one knows your life better than you do. No psychic is 100% What if you make huge decisions on the 20% that is wrong?

Best of luck, folks.

AMEN

And yes I wish someone would have told me all of this before I ever got my first reading. I don't know if I would have listened though. I never would have dreamed it would actually apply to me. Seems like everyone who gets readings wants to believe they will be the exception.

My biggest regret is the money I wasted. My advice to everyone is to save or wisely invest as much as you can even if you have a lot of disposable income. Things can change on a dime and suddenly you will wish you had the money you spent on readings. Readings will never guarantee a good future but money put aside for the future sure does help. Treat yourself as well as you can afford, eat well, get massages, take a nice vacation. Buy property or start a business. Buy a nice car. Imagine if the money you spend on readings could instead be donated to a good cause or invested in building your local community. Life is full of possibilities but when you get lots of readings you get tunnel vision. It's all about what will come up at the end of the tunnel.

Yes to that!

And I doubt I would have listened, but hindsight is 20/20 and I kick myself everday.

[peppie]

My biggest regret is the money I wasted. My advice to everyone is to save or wisely invest as much as you can even if you have a lot of disposable income. Things can change on a dime and suddenly you will wish you had the money you spent on readings. Readings will never guarantee a good future but money put aside for the future sure does help.

100% agree. I regret all the money I wasted. I wish I had done things differently. It's sad but I also wish that I had understood that most people do not care about you at all. They care about getting their needs met, so if that's taking money from you when they KNOW they've been inaccurate they'll take the money. No one will care for you or tell you the truth so you need to take care of YOU (me).

Trying to stop getting readings is futile. Trying to build something else is not futile. Trying to stop is the same as just giving in and doing it. One has to refocus on what one wants.

At the end of the day if you're calling psychics a LOT, the truth is the thing you want the most is likely the thing you're not going to get because you already know inside you're not going to get it and can't handle the truth.

When I say you I mean me. This is all true for me.

[peppie]

And yes I wish someone would have told me all of this before I ever got my first reading. I don't know if I would have listened though.

I'm going to make a stronger statement than this. I think we would have listened if someone would have really cared enough to speak the truth. I think we would have listened if it was early enough on and we wouldn't have been swindled by people preying on vulnerable people and the weak places they were at in their lives. Systems like keen are meant to manipulate our senses into buying and spending more. keen is a glorified casino, milking people for their money.

1) Why can't we see all of readers' listings anymore?
2) Why are readers' reviews so fake - why do people only have two weeks to leave reviews?
3) Why does keen send you discounts only when you stop spending?

We shouldn't blame people for our bad mistakes, but we need to make clear that the majority of readers out there and people don't care at all for you. They could care less and couldn't be bothered. WE have to make the decisions for ourselves and stop letting people pretend they care when they just want to either make money off of us or simply can't be bothered.

Accountability is understanding when we're being worked by other people and making better choices.

Thanks for your replies - you help me, too.

[maggs30]

I think that 99.9% of the psychics on these platforms and even many store fronts are fakes. I thank God I found this forum to find the ones I truly connect with because to be honest I call not so much to do with mine and his problems but more so because of my past relationship issues. Even the ones I connect with got stuff wrong before I started working on myself.

But back to the point must are after your money and milk you harder because the platform is milking them.

[Yaz88]

For me, the platform systems like Keen have been the real problem.  Getting a reading from someone that has their own site takes planning and you retain a certain amount of a self-control over how much you spend. The impulse binges, those are the ones that are emotionally and financially so incredibly destructive.

Funny thing is, if the person I am interested in were to reach out to me tomorrow, I wouldn’t really even know what to say to him.  When asked what I’ve been up to, I sure wouldn’t want to say that I’ve been calling a bunch of psychics to see if I’d ever hear from him again and to find out what he’s been doing.  This, here, is a very slippery slope.  At one point I’d only go to a psychic to see what the universe and guides had as advice for me to grow spiritually and reach a higher version of self.  Then it turned into crazy ass madness of being codependent on readings.  A “negative” reading would turn my day on its head. 

I really don’t like the person I’ve become since July.  Hell, I wouldn’t date the current version of myself.  It’s a tricky thing with these readings because out of nowhere it seems like you stop doing the things you love to do and your priorities get all mixed up.  I’m not really sure how it happens, but it goes to show that it truly is an addiction. 

I’ll end by saying that this whole psychic reading fiasco has shown me that I need to heal.  Whatever triggered this obsession with knowing everything and the final outcome needs to be healed.  My POI is doing whatever it is that he’s doing, it doesn’t change my reality.  I just know that before I can have a relationship with anyone, I need to work on the relationship I have with myself.

When  you are in the midst of all these readings, don’t forget who the person is that really matters.  That person is you.

[Girly1998]

For me, the platform systems like Keen have been the real problem.  Getting a reading from someone that has their own site takes planning and you retain a certain amount of a self-control over how much you spend. The impulse binges, those are the ones that are emotionally and financially so incredibly destructive.

Funny thing is, if the person I am interested in were to reach out to me tomorrow, I wouldn’t really even know what to say to him. When asked what I’ve been up to, I sure wouldn’t want to say that I’ve been calling a bunch of psychics to see if I’d ever hear from him again and to find out what he’s been doing.  This, here, is a very slippery slope.  At one point I’d only go to a psychic to see what the universe and guides had as advice for me to grow spiritually and reach a higher version of self.  Then it turned into crazy ass madness of being codependent on readings.  A “negative” reading would turn my day on its head. 

I really don’t like the person I’ve become since July.  Hell, I wouldn’t date the current version of myself.  It’s a tricky thing with these readings because out of nowhere it seems like you stop doing the things you love to do and your priorities get all mixed up.  I’m not really sure how it happens, but it goes to show that it truly is an addiction. 

I’ll end by saying that this whole psychic reading fiasco has shown me that I need to heal.  Whatever triggered this obsession with knowing everything and the final outcome needs to be healed.  My POI is doing whatever it is that he’s doing, it doesn’t change my reality.  I just know that before I can have a relationship with anyone, I need to work on the relationship I have with myself.

When  you are in the midst of all these readings, don’t forget who the person is that really matters.  That person is you.

Gosh yes. I often imagine what I would say if he did reach out and it always ends in anger. I wish I knew how damaging these reading would be before I made that first call.

[peppie]

The reality is that whole system is carefully designed in a way that will promote addiction. You end up trying so many different readers to find one or two decent ones, by that time you are hooked. Having lots and lots of terrible advisors works in their favor. It's an amazing business model.

Yes. I'm so happy for you you broke free. Everything you wrote makes sense to me.

The thing I hate the most is that they keep your information on file even if you take it off. I didn't give them my name except through my credit card. I deleted my credit card and yet they still kept my name on file. Advisors leaves notes about you in their system, too. So all of your personal information is inside the site.

[Lo12345]

Do we know which advisors share info and such?  I would like to know if I have been to one and not got to them again