@wishfulthinker I'm sorry if I took everything and ran with it yesterday. My sister is a VERY important person in my life. We've been through so much together as a family and yesterday was absolutely horrible. If I step back and out of the situation, we and you have something in common, we've learned that people aren't always what they claim to be..... That goes for Psychics and the MEN in our lives.
I actually had a bit of a giggle this morning over all of this. Maybe you were picking up on our emotions yesterday because both of us were feeling like we were taken a few years ago when her ex was around and now he thinks he can just step back into the picture like my sister is that needy and desperate and in love with him, like he's the be all end all.
I did speak with her last night, Sarah, after emailing her about what happened with my sister and I talked to her for a little bit about what happened here and on FB yesterday too. What she told us was that we shouldn't have responded to you the way we did, it didn't help us in any way to feel better by saying what we did here. We should know better, we have been through quite a bit and it has changed us. My sister spent quite a bit of money on psychics many years ago, this is why we live together today, it helps her to pay her bills and try to get this all paid off. We still have a very long road ahead of us.
We were sent to Sarah by our mother because of all the money my sister was spending. Sarah is a different type of person, I guess thats the best way to put that. We have read with a ton of other psychics, Sarah is the only one that we can contact, WITHOUT paying for another reading, to get help with initial questions we have asked her for help with. It helps my sister especially because Sarah has been able to say things that we were thinking while we were thinking it, or threw out names or places or predictions that have actually come true, so my sister transferred her addiction I suppose you could say, over to her and Sarah helped her to stop going through a ton of psychics and she has read for us for Free 85% of the time. The times that we pay for readings with her is when something new comes up for us (if you could only imagine how much money this has saved us).
She told us a few years ago that there are places we can go to on the internet where we could talk to people that had things in common with us, especially with psychic addiction and spending too much money on it. She also pressed us to see our family doctor and be referred to a psychologist. Yes, she has obviously worked for us and after what we've been through we appreciate it.
I think all of this is psychological, something she told us a while ago is getting to know yourself before you start really questioning the actions or non-actions of other people because if you can't interact with yourself honestly and really get to know yourself then how can you ever expect to see other's for what and who they truly are. She's always thrown things back at us, getting us to think, trying to draw our emotions away from what is negative. And when she cries with us, we know it's sincere.
She may not work for everyone but, I try to hold onto what she has told us because my family has gone from having a very serious situation financially to being almost in the clear.
So again I just wanted you to know that I apologize for being so sharp and making assumptions. I should know better by now after all that we have been through in my family. I hope that we can become a support system for you and other's here. Maybe this was a really good way for us to get to know each other a little better and show that we have a lot in common.
My heart felt, sincere, apology goes out to you and I hope that you too can find the same peace we are striving for in our home!
