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TimeHeals:
@wishfullthinker: Well, to tell you how utterly pathetic I really was, there are a lot more I could add to the list - just would need time to remember them all, and a lot of them I just blocked, because they would constantly send me emails, so they would be on my blocked list in my keen email. And yes, some have a knack for telling you about people around you - but I compare that to that video someone posted on here - 'cold reading' - where everyone saw something in the guy's reading that they could apply to themselves - and all his readings were the same for everyone in his test group.

Just a point of interest:
I did see a tarot reader at an event once, about 2 years ago, and she told me the person having the reading actually has to touch the deck before the reading, in order to connect, for accuracy. I don't know if this is true or not, just what she said so take it for what its worth.

I never particularly liked to use tarot readers, but so many on keen use it.

LiveLaughLove:
But what to you do when in your heart and gut you know the person is who your suppose to be with?

My reading with peej was interested in a few ways but one that stood out was she said I'm very intuitive and that I doubt things even though I know it's right and what stood out was how I feel about my ex but then she mentioned a few mins later that there was someone from my past who I need to let go of. She didn't go into detail about that statement but it was like you tod me not to doubt my intuition but then told me to let go of my past which my gut is telling me not to close the door...so now I'm conflicted about what I should do..let it go which I have been doing as I'm dating someone but my gut isn't allowing me to close the door completely....

LiveLaughLove:
But then I think well it's been a full year and nothing so it makes sense to let go of it....I don't know. I'm just trying to enjoy the new guy im dating. They say it's better to love and lost than never love at all but I do wish I would had never meet my ex...

sunandmoon:

--- Quote from: kickingthehabit on January 31, 2012, 04:40:34 PM ---And yes, it is the need to talk to someone because everyone is tired of hearing it!

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That's the other thing of course..... you so want to talk to someone that will really care and listen but when these issues drag on for so long, people get tired of hearing it.  :(


--- Quote from: LiveLaughLove on January 31, 2012, 07:20:31 PM ---But then I think well it's been a full year and nothing so it makes sense to let go of it....I don't know. I'm just trying to enjoy the new guy im dating. They say it's better to love and lost than never love at all but I do wish I would had never meet my ex...

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I went 18 months. Sometimes I wish I had never met mine, but we DID have loads of fun and I did manage to divorce someone who wasn't good for me at all, and I wouldn't have had the courage to do so otherwise.

At least you're out dating. I didn't go out at ALL, only occasionally worked out with a girlfriend. Not that I was a big go out person to begin with. But I sure wasn't living my life, I had no energy to.

LiveLaughLove:
True true. We had a good relationship and HE even said that to me in one of the last time I spoke with him. And he was the first guy I've ever loved so it was good and we had more good times than bad ya know? But I feel if I had never met him I wouldn't be in this situation with him..

And what's funny is every time I date someone I really like an we stop dating then when the next dude comes in the pic I forget all about the dude before but I still haven't been able to do that with my ex...that right there make me wonder what does it all mean in the end..ayeyiyi! :-\

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