Hello everyone,
I've read with my favorites recently, and they all said some similar things about the old poi but they were different enough for me to feel confused.
All said that he's unhappy with his girlfriend
Most said that she wants a deeper commitment and talking marriage. Almost all describe her as manipulative, controlling, needy.
Most said he feels stifled and overwhelmed
Almost everyone gave varying times when this relationship ends -anywhere from now through December.
The confusing things-
One said he is talking to another woman and thinking of leaving the one he is with for her (entirely possible. He has always "overlapped" relationships in the past)
Another said they're passed problems, getting more serious and she wants marriage, but he's not ready to be tied down
And finally one said that the relationship is already in the process of ending because he wants new experiences and realizes he's not as happy as he thought
So what does all this mean?
I have no idea. But I think It means I'm reading too much right now, still unsure of what I'm hearing and what it means, and am spending too much time and energy on this. I thought clarification would help, or if the readings are similar enough than I would have some idea of what was happening. The mention of "marriage" threw me a little because it made it a real possibility. And all for a man who lied, cheated constantly on his first wife, used me. The fact that he asked to see me a month ago and then told me the day after that he had a girlfriend (one he was going to try to make it work with) was awful.
So I've decided to take a vacation for a couple weeks. From readings, from my tarot cards, and (I hope) from giving so much energy to something I can do nothing about anyway. He wants no contact for 3 months to focus on his relationship and I'm thinking I want no contact for good.
It's time to feel better! Thanks for reading and best wishes!