Honestly, because feelings change almost daily, and one minute this person may love the hell out of you and be missing you but then a few weeks or a month or a few months later, their feelings are gone, I don't really benefit from empaths. I guess I enjoy them once a great while if I'm curious where their feelings are at in that moment, but overall I think it's a waste of money. Hell, even my feelings change almost daily because I'm confused right now.
I also don't think it's a good idea to be telling anyone what's best for them really. It's easy to sit back as an outsider and say "Oh he treats you like xyz and you just deserve so much better and the best thing for you is to move on." Because, maybe it isn't best for that person to move on right then. Maybe they NEED to stay in that same painful emotional space for however long in order to get out of it what was meant to get out of it. Maybe they are holding on because something inside them just "knows" that the situation will turn around at some point, maybe even years down the line. Maybe not everyone feels ok just going out on useless dates that you know will never turn into anything because you won't be able to invest your emotions and give your heart at that time cause it's somewhere else. Maybe "distractions" don't work for everyone.
Distractions don't work for me. I have to wait a long while until I'm over the pain, over the idea and hope that things will turn around etc. Just over every single piece of it..........and THEN I'm emotionally and mentally FREE to begin again. I think all of us call psychics for someone to talk to and help us through our pains during these times, even if that means telling us what we want to hear for a very very long time because as time goes on, our feelings typically naturally fade away or at least reduce and get to a bearable point where even if the situation didn't turn around, it wouldn't kill us anymore. There was a time when I really appreciate readers telling me what I wanted to hear because it helped me get through the day without crying and exhausting myself.
Now, I prefer and appreciate a reader that is just a straight shooter and will tell me no it isn't gonna happen or yeah it may happen but the cycle will repeat and you'll keep going through this for xyz amount of time. Just only telling me what they see will happen and no more fairytales. I don't like holding on longer than I feel I have too. So if someone just tells me......nope this is it.......then yeah it hurts like a bitch but I'll get over it in much less time than holding on for years down the line and then have to choke down the reality.
Also, I feel we are ALL intuitive and we "know" deep down when a thing is really over. As many break ups as I've had with this current person over the last 5 years.......this one feels very very different to me. It feels like the last one and I'm not sure if that's because it's me that is just so sick and tired and had enough or if it's him being tired and having enough and moving on or if it's a combination of both of us, but the moment he walked out of my house to relocate to the other state for the 5th time in 5 years, I just felt I'd either never see him again or it would be a VERY long time before I did again and I felt like this was the end of the road for us. At least, for now and for a while to come. What will happen in a year from now or even 6 months from now? I don't know but I just know that for now..........it's done and it has been done for several months now even though we still communicate here and there, that closeness that I once felt is no longer there and I don't think it is for him either. So you see, I do believe we ALL have that "knowing". Probably best to go with the "feel" of it but it's hard cause we don't want to accept certain things or we aren't ready to accept it. We all get through things in our own timing and no one should ever tell us when that time is or should be because we all process things differently. That's just my opinion.