I’v bee there, I know and that’s why I did some research, with a twin flame sometimes you see them and feel oh no this person is not my type but your eyes lock and you go crazy, it’s not a physical connection. Is the connection that you can’t let go, i’m Not talking about the girls or boys who fall in love with everyone they see, this connection normally comes once in a lifetime, no duplication, nothing like you’c Felt before, it’s not lust , something deep, something scared, you feel what they feel, they feel what you feel. You never get over it no matter what, they can’t also let go no matter what. It’s like a force that pulls you together and pulls you apart. They feeling is mutual not one sided. There’s no questioning about what they feel or you feel. The relationship that keeps you up for the rest of your life. Once you experience this, no one is good enough yet it feels look jr a waste of time. The one person you bend all the rules for!!! But there are lessons, the person makes you want to do better for yourself and the people around you. You may wish that you never crossed paths. your heart never heals, you try to replace them but it doesn't work, no one understands, you don't even understand this connection yourself.
Bostongirl, don't be mad for me, he IS my twin flame, it's a load of horrible life lessons that I'm learning and growing from. I would not hold onto anyone because a reader said they were coming back.
bstalling, for me , NO, this is not a pleasant relationship, but he's helping me grow, through the pain. I know this is my twin flame because there's a neon sign over his head that says "this is your twin flame". JK but I have known this man for over 25 years and just in the last 5 years it all came clear to me that this IS in fact a twin flame situation, and the only decent explanation for what has happened with this person. I'm not going to get too into it because it's not really open for debate in chat rooms but when you know you know.
Newlife, I agree with your definition. It's not a lovey dovey relationship, and I wouldn't wish this on anyone.
bstalling, you got it backwards, soulmates are kind gentle loving relationships and twin flames bring up the crap so you can heal it. However, the technical term doesn't really matter, as long as we understand that these are two completely different relationships.
sunshineluv7 Don't worry about me, I'm doing great, haven't had a break up in over 15 years.