Hi everyone.
Thanks for the kind words. The only person I called today was Kisha, and that was a heart wrenching call. I've been speaking to psychics for so long and when things were really bad with my ex, but this was actually the first time I burst into tears while talking to a reader. It was a very depressing and discouraging conversation.
All the feelings are there and we're wonderful together, but I can't pay for the damage his ex caused him. Kisha basically told me that he has deep feelings for me, but he's not ready to trust another woman. She said it's not going to work NOW because I can't put up with his insecurities. I'm thinking about calling someone else, but I don't know if I should. I don't know if I want to spend the money considering how they were mostly wrong about my ex.
Synergy,
First off I am sorry that you are hurting
. Please don't feel like you're suppose to be alone, I don't believe that is true for anyone. It has only been a day and you may be able to work things out with Chance, but if not, just like you thought you would never meet anyone again after your ex someone will come after Chance too. From the outside looking in, I am going to be real with you, you were only talking to Chance for a couple of months and you had already gotten into a couple big arguments when the beginning is suppose to be the "honeymoon" stage. Not saying that you are, but I have dated guys (nice, charming, great guys) and made them to be more than they were and looking back they were not the right person
for me
at all, I was just lonely and my ex had moved on with someone else and I wanted to do the same.
I agree with everyone else who says not to make anymore calls to psychics. If whatever they say may or may not happen we or our family/friends are more likely to predict our futures than they are. They say it is based on free will, changing energy, etc. but they should be able to see past all of that or else not offer a "service" because essentially they are just giving advice based off of the information we have given them, hence the "I only answer very detailed questions". If I recall Kisha told you she not only could see it working out but possibly even marriage with this guy but
NOW
she is saying that it will not work out after all and of all things because you won't be able to handle his insecurities yet she did not see from the beginning that he was insecure when that is a big enough issue that it would cause a breakup.
Even with psychics getting numbers right, i.e. "he'll call in a 2", well there is 2 hours, 2 days, 2 weeks, the 2nd, 12th, 22nd, the 20th-29th, Tuesday the 2nd day of the week, 2 am, 2 pm, any time on the clock with a 2 on it, etc. where they are likely to nail one of those and if you really like a reader it is very easily possible to give them credit for this when it is just a coincidence. Similarly, there are some studies on relationships like sunandmoon noted that the relationship has a better chance if the ex comes back in 6 weeks or that rebound relationships usually don't last long that we have all heard a thousand times but somehow it sounds more believeable coming from a psychic even though it has a high probability of happening anyway whether they said so or not.
After getting readings for several years I finally closed my account Jan 1st. There are some readers who were amazing for me with names and highly specific details but I have left them behind too. I think the purpose of psychics are to step in and guide you in a time of need and should not allow callers to call so often. I do not believe they should allow people to get daily/weekly check-ins and the scoop on every new guy I meet, after every date and contact with him and where its going to go because that may (and has) change how I behave based on what they are saying. It gives so many expectations and even if the psychic is right, we are not meant to know everything. So many people are in happy loving relationships and they got there without a psychic's insight because they took a chance. Not every relationship is going to work out, but at least when the non psychic callers have things not go their way, they don't have the added pain of looking back at how much money they have spent on psychics like I have.
I know you are hurting but you will get through this! *hugs*
