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Synergy:
Hi everyone.
Thanks for the kind words. The only person I called today was Kisha, and that was a heart wrenching call. I've been speaking to psychics for so long and when things were really bad with my ex, but this was actually the first time I burst into tears while talking to a reader. It was a very depressing and discouraging conversation.
All the feelings are there and we're wonderful together, but I can't pay for the damage his ex caused him. Kisha basically told me that he has deep feelings for me, but he's not ready to trust another woman. She said it's not going to work now because I can't put up with his insecurities. I'm thinking about calling someone else, but I don't know if I should. I don't know if I want to spend the money considering how they were mostly wrong about my ex.
guesswho:
Hi Synergy,
I'm just throwing this out there. Let me tell you who keeps it REALLY real, Richard on Certified Psychics. He would tell me that my ex is coming back, but that we would just break up again. I used to hate calling him, but I had to because he was always right. I never listened to his advice, but that man was always right. He'll tell you the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth. He gives you a man's perspective. He's the only one that saw reconciliation AND break-ups after that. He sees further out. He'll tell you that things are good now and will sour later or vice versa. I still hate calling him because he's so rough, but he's honest... Just my 2 cents.
4everhopeful:
Im so sorry Synergy. I had such high hopes for you and Chance. But my advice to you would be to NOT call any psychics asking about it. Its only going to give you expectations and then let you down when things dont happen like they said. Pick yourself up and dust yourself off. Take a day to cry or scream or pray or whatever makes you feel like youre getting rid of the stress. Then go for a new haircut or manicure or massage. Go buy yourself something pretty to wear. Just anything that picks you up and makes you feel good. I finally realized that I did so much better before I called the psychics. Sometimes they get things right and sometimes they dont. Its fun to get a reading but when we become dependent on what they tell us, it just isnt healthy and we tend to stop making decisions on our own. You never know, he just may start missing you and contact you very soon, and you also have to decide if you can have a relationship with him having a broken heart over someone in his past. Maybe you both need time, just let this breakup be time apart and dont let it become a bitter breakup. Sometimes they do come back, but please dont obsess over it. There are a lot of us that are alone and lonely. Taking better care of ourselves is the key to feeling better. So spend your money on you and not more psychic readings. Good luck girl.
sunandmoon:
Hi Synergy... I'm so sorry to hear this. :( You're right, you can't and shouldn't pay for what his ex did to him. None of us should have to (and trust me, I was with my ex too. I found out after the fact that his last gf had walked out on him and told him she wasn't ready for a committed r/s - pretty much exactly what I told him right after my divorce. I really must've triggered some issue with him when I did that!).
I'm with 4ever - don't call anymore. I didn't get you anywhere with your ex and it's not going to get you anywhere with Chance. I've read that most r/s that rekindle will do so within 6 weeks. See how that goes. Talk to him if you can and want to. But don't get lost in the psychic world again, it didn't help you that much last time. :(
LiveLaughLove:
Guess who: does this Richard guy give advice or readings?
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