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Tango:
Synergy, I just wanted to say that I'm sorry to hear about the break up, but I feel that the ball is in your court if you want to get back together with Chance. I wish you all the best and I hope that everything works out for both of you.

For those of you who have read with Richard, I decided to try him out. I felt that he was very honest, and even though it wasn't really positive, I think he's probably right. He said that my guy has a huge ego and believes that if he came into my life a year from now and I was in a happy relationship, he would be able to get me back and get me to leave the person who I'm with. He told me that he is very good at manipulation in order to get what he wants and also said that he tries to hurt me because it makes him happy when I am miserable (which is what Healings by Rob also told me).

aquarian:
Tango,

wow he told me the EXACT same thing... i'm really starting to doubt the authenticity of this advisor. he certainly got me thinking negatively though. i managed to get angry at my guy after i got off the phone with him!

Tango:
Really?! Now I am doubting the reading too! It's just frustrating because good or bad, I just want the truth. My ex wasn't one to be honest and he definitely did manipulate me. It's hard because I cannot verify anything psychics have told me so I am just not sure what to believe! He also told me my ex doesn't have a conscience, but I thought that could be true because considering how much he hurt me and how little he seems to care about my feelings, he could be right about that.

aquarian:
i'm sure whatever he told u is true for many men out there. he's a guy so i'm sure he knows how they think lol.

he told me that even if i was with someone 2 years down the line, he could always come back and steal me away. my guy isn't manipulative at all and i'm almost positive that he would never do something like that because he would think it was wrong.

guesswho:
Word of advice about Richard - don't take all the negative things he says to heart.  They are based on his opinion from what he sees the guy is doing or has done in the past.  He is seeing purely objectively without all of the emotions that we feel for the guys.  He can see if there is a lot of attraction and chemistry, but the loving feelings,etc he's not to into.  He can see all the hurt the guy has caused you in the past.  He's reading off of that.

DO listen to what he say will happen in the future as far as if he's going to come back and break up with you again, if he will commit to you, if he has potential, if there is someone else, health issues, job stuff, etc.

Wipe out all of his negative opinion because they will make you want to hunt your guy down!!  That's just how his delivery is. 

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